We call it gaslighting
Just a short list of the crap exH used to feed me about our situation. In situations of affairs they call this sort of thing gaslighting.Turning the situation to make it someone else's fault,basically creating a gasfire and make the distraction to keep the focus off the REAL problem...care to add yours? 
you just need to give her time to adjust
well maybe if you were more approachable she could bond with you
maybe she is so clingy to me because you intimidate her
she just wants to make sure i don't love you more than i love her.that's perfectly fair.
you will never be first.you will always be second to my daughter in ALL matters.
i love her mother and always will because she's the mother of my child.
boys and girls need to be loved differently that's why i'm softer with her than with your son.he needs a firm hand and she doesn't.
she's just shy
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Don't let her win. Your only
Don't let her win.
Your only letting her win because she is getting to you.
You are stronger then that, the strongest person I know, don't let it get to you.
All you ever do is attack me
yes,thankfully i was able to
yes,thankfully i was able to afford major surgery to have my jaw repaired...it was constantly dropping to the floor and eventually just stayed there til i got it fixed;-)
me too! ROFL i read it 4
me too! ROFL i read it 4 times before i got it. i'm sloooooow today
so glad I could make everyone
so glad I could make everyone smile... My good deed for the day is done.
>>>>>>>>>>love her mother and
>>>>>>>>>>love her mother and always will because she's the mother of my child.
WHAAAAATTTT??? Oh heeelllll no! I have kids with my ex, but I do NOT love him. I love my kids. Him, I tolerate for THEM. LOVE??? No way, won't make that mistake again!
Reminds me of the time BM
Reminds me of the time BM asked DH if he considered her a "friend". LMAO, he was living with me at the time and I was in the room when she asked him this (over the phone) his response: LONG LOUD LAUGHTER followed by a very short, direct "no". I love that man.
Oh, and this was the same
Oh, and this was the same conversation that she told him that that song "Cool" by Gwen Stefani was "Their song now". I had to pick myself up off the floor after that one.
Oh, it's serious. She is
Oh, it's serious. She is nutso.
I can pull out some oldies.
I can pull out some oldies. My dh doesnt do this anymore (so they CAN learn some things)but things he used to say to me years ago are:
You have to EARN his respect. (this is my all time favorite-REally, I have to earn a 7-8 year's old respect? And shouldnt this already be accomplished by the fact that I'm providing food, shelter, clothing, cooking for him, cleaning for him, helping him with his homework, taking him to all his extracurriculars and cheering him on, etc, etc, etc?)
I've also heard the-"he's just shy"-this about an ADHD, ODD boy that will talk to any stranger and to himself-just not me.