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Going to write a book

constantly_irritated's picture

So I told SS11 that I am going to write a book about his poor pathetic life. He acts like he is the most abused child on the planet when I ask him if he did his homework and make him redo something. He lies on a regular basis and it's all for what???? You might be able to guess: video games Smile I have to be honest here with how I feel: SS11 is basically a waste of space at this point. I hope he finds something to do with himself in middle school or something because at this point all he does is mope around feeling sorry for himself, sneak candy instead of eating regular food, play video games, and make noises and irritate people to get attention. DH put him in Jujitzu (sp?) and can't figure out why SS11 can never wrestle or keep up with any of the other kids and I'm thinking, "Hello!!! he's a mushy barrel of laziness!!" He is not overweight, but all he eats is junk when he drags himself out of the office during his video game time. He doesn't ride his bike, play any sports, go outside, swim, anything active what so ever.

Anyways, BM has decided that she's going to make him into a math genius. On her weekends she is going to tutor him in math, which he is actually good at, and get him into MIT (hope she can pay for it). I guess this is her way of making up for the fact that she has NO RESPONSIBILITIES, like making dentist appointments and taking him, making his doctors appointments for his ADHD, making his counseling appointments (I stopped that when I realized I was the only one who gave a shit), bringing cupcakes to his school for birthdays, making Easter baskets, taking him to swim lessons and other activities, I think you get the point.

Oh I know this post was all over the place. It's how I feel right now, though.

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hismineandours's picture

oh,no my ss14 is the most abused child on the planet. We went to the store last night and bought some snacks-some healthy and some not. We told ss we were keeping them downstairs locked up since he likes to do things like eat 4 bananas in one sitting. He asked, Whatever will i do? i said you will eat your meals and if we decide you earn a snack yiu will get one. He then said he was going to purposively starve himself. i told him to go for it.

animamx12's picture

Blum 3 Its ok, I think its really good when you share something, even its just through writing. I think SS11 doesn't make anything good for him. I am hoping that he will sooner realize those things you are giving attention for him to be better.

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