Sorry ladies I by no means at all mean to offend anyone by my title. That was a text that SD16 sent SS15 on Saturday. SD16 has been gone since June 19th to LIVE with her POS BM that she hadn't seen in over 5 years. SD16 went from living in a nice 3184' home with 5 bedrooms and 3 FULL bathrooms to living in a 1002' home with 2 bedrooms and 1 and a half bathrooms. I am LOVING that. According to SD16 she likes it better at her BMs because she is no longer around Ubrng and her dad. Fuck you too SD16 and I am so happy for you! I wonder who she is sharing a bed with.....or maybe BM and her are sleeping on the couch together having fun sleepovers with each other every night!

Okay....back to the "F u text"...Friday night SS15 was trying to speak "intelligently" and was claiming that once you are 17 you are considered an adult and he was telling his dad that he as in my SO was making "invalid points" and then nonchalantly admitted to being lazy all through out his middle school career. That didn't sit too well with SO. SS15 was running his mouth and he would NOT shut up. So he got his cellphone taken away. When SS15 was told to give up his cell phone he told SO "What are you scared I am going to tell Mom" Okay...SS15 made it very obvious that night with his dumbass comments that he has been communicating with his BM. That bitch has been talking shit about SO and I to SS15. She along with SD16 are trying to get SS15 to join them in there hell hole.

SO told me that if any texts came through from BM and SD16 to reply pretending it was SS15. BM texted him Saturday morning "Good morning I love you I hope everything is okay" I called SO and told him and he told me to reply back telling her that SS15 and Dad were going to a game store and then to lunch. They did go to the game store but not out to lunch. Then SD16 started texting SS15. Her first text said "Ugh I hate when mom uses my phone" Right SD16. Since your mom has shitty credit you BOTH share that phone. Then she texted him how she was watching a movie and how she LOVES her new NOSE RING! Wow.....BM is sooooooo cool! She let SD16 get a nose piercing! Since it was still supposed to be SS texting all I said was "cool" then she asked what he was doing. I texted that he was playing on the xbox and asked what she was up to. She came back with watching a movie and then her next text out of nowhere she texted him "F u niggaaa" What the!?!?!?! I felt like texting back "SD16 YOU ARE A DUMBASS" but I refrained from doing so. I texted back "stupid. going to a friends house now" she came back with "shut up ugly have fun" Okay...

Well SS15 was being extremely paranoid about his phone. Yeah I wonder why.....He gave me an attitude Saturday to the point that I had to call SO and get him on the phone with SS. SO told SS to shut it and go to his room for the rest of the day and he was going to get his phone back when SO said so! I went upstairs to our room turned on the music and then realized that I had left the cellphone behind. I come out of my room and see that SS bedroom door was open. The little shit snuck into the office while I was in my room and took his phone back! Hell no! I went into his room and he immediately gave it to me and gave me a major attitude about me texting his "sister" on HIS phone. Me to SS "It is NOT your phone and how dare you take it back" SS "yes it is MY phone why were you using it!?!" Me to SS "It is NOT your phone!" And then there went the phone flying down from the second floor to only hit the tile floor to then break. Problem solved. Now the cellphone no longer works and SS won't be sneaking to get it back...

Yes I overreacted but I was MORE mad over the fact that SS had the audacity to sneak out of his room after being sent there for the rest of the day, to go into the office and snoop around until he found it and then giving me a MAJOR disrespectful attitude! One thing I don't deal well with is defiant attitude. I called SO and I was pissed off! I could have removed the battery but then SS would have just been snooping around in the middle of the night or while we are at work looking for it.

To make a long story short SO laid down the law with SS like all parents should be disciplining their disrespectful teenagers. SO did have a talk with SS the next morning. And yes, BM has been feeding SS bullshit hence the dramatic change in attitude. She is manipulating him and trying to get him to move in with her. She doesn't want SD and SS what she wants is my SO money. Right now BM is all about fun and games with SD16 but when it comes time to go back to school and SD16 becomes more demanding shits going to hit the fan!

I honeslty think it is in the best interest of my SS that he not communicate with his sister right now. She is a bad influence and she is also feeding him bs. That explains why he was so paranoid about his phone. BM can eat shit and die for all I care.......