Never going to be rid of BM!!!
I guess they never really get out of your hair huh?
So SS is in the military and he and DH can only communicate via email. They email every few days.
Apparently SS emailed DH on Friday.
We went out of town on Friday and did not return until Sunday. So he did not check his email for that time.
Sunday his cell phone goes off and it is BM…he ignores the call. She does not leave a message, but calls back immediately. So he picked it up. She told him that SS has been emailing him and DH has not been answering so SS wanted her to call and “check” on him to make sure everything is ok. DH told her, yea we have just been out of town for the weekend and he will email him right now.
UGH. There are SOOOOO many things wrong with this whole scenario that I want to spit.
1)…It was only two freaking days and SS has to involve BM!
2)…Another woman is calling to check on my husband. (I know..mother of his kid and all that crap)
3)…DH jumped when BM said how high. (I would have done the same in this situation, but it brought back bad memories.)
4)…I think DH should have told SS that he did not need to have anyone check on him after one unanswered email. But of course he did not.
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It was a very last minute
It was a very last minute deal. And even if it wasn't, it should not matter.
SS emailed on Friday...DH
SS emailed on Friday...DH would NORMALLY have responded either Saturday or Sunday. Sometimes sooner and sometimes later. That is why I don't understand why he got BM all involved this time.
I guess my point is....if you
I guess my point is....if you think that BM is out of your hair when the skid turns 18...not going to happen.
Why can they only communicate
Why can they only communicate via email? I have friends with sons in Afganistan who are able to call home and/or text. SS needs to get off his wallet, buy a phone card and call his father himself if he is worried.
You can't control everyone
You can't control everyone elses actions.
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Really..is that what you think this is. LMAO.
You are wrong. And I NEVER thought that, but I know several on here do think that when skid hit 18, BM is gone.
lol.. Not going to get in a
lol.. Not going to get in a pissing match with you. You are wrong. Period.
Oh, but it can. And it is
Oh, but it can. And it is wonderful!
Ditto! I wanted BM to find
Ditto!
I wanted BM to find another victim and ensnare him. She finally did!! Had a baby and got married. The crazy level dropped dramatically. By the time he wises up, the skids will be aged out!! YAY!!!
And, we won't have to worry about anything additional for skids. Why not? Because of BM's own campaign of parental alienation! She was very good at THAT!! Sucks for my hubby (and skids), good for her (and me!). I guess she was a little short-sighted in not realizing that the skids she has alienated from their father is only going to have ONE parent to be able to get to pay for all those additional things!
This gravy train is coming to the station..and won't be making any more trips!!
Actually, I always knew she
Actually, I always knew she would be around after 18…DH is the one that thought otherwise. Lol
But it is just the stupid things that SS does to make sure that BM and DH communicate. This is not the first, nor will it be that last time.
It has slacked off since he moved, but it was crazy when he was here. SS is always trying to get BM and DH on the phone together or in the same place all the time. And for the dumbest reasons. It just gets old after a while and I needed to vent.
The thought of BM always
The thought of BM always being in our lives scares the sh!t out of me. I would be irratated too if it were me Willow. Not saying that it wasn't done for the right reasons, but still, if BM is contacting DH after the kids hit 18 unless it's an emergency about one of them it will bug the crap out of me.
Is it possible SS didn't even
Is it possible SS didn't even ask BM to check on DH? He may have commented, "I wrote dad and he hasn't responded," and she decided to call and say "SS has been writing, why are you not responding, he is so worried!" Just to make your DH feel bad about not replying right away, like he needs to make SS number one priority even though he is far away. I don't know, just a thought.
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