SD called DH last night
Supposedly, anyway. DH has been doing random security gigs for extra cash and was working last night so didn't answer the call. BM then texted him saying SD "wanted to talk".
Apparently his friend's girlfriend's mom works at CYFD and is "looking into it" for him so I'm going to shut up about it but I told him to not talk to SD until he has more details. I honestly think she just wants to ask about her phone being turned off but it's not worth it to me and the baby to stress over it. He can do whatever he wants as long as I have peace in my home.
Edit: SD's Instagram has been deleted.
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He can talk to her, just say,
He can talk to her, just say, "Hi honey, love you and miss you."
I don't think there is a real investigation at this point. CPS does have rules on when they have to meet with the subject of a call.
I don't even care anymore. I
I don't even care anymore. I told him to call but he thinks he needs a lawyer. Yeah, we can't afford that.
I'd care. Act like a twat,
I'd care. Act like a twat, and your phone gets turned off, and no one cares if you don't like it.
I meant I don't care if he
I meant I don't care if he calls her but I'd almost bet my entire savings that it's to ask about her phone or "apologize" for the Instagram post.
Edit: her Instagram has been deleted.
I wasn't clear from your last
I wasn't clear from your last post . Did DH ever meet at his shop (or anywhere else) on Saturday with the guy investigator?
If not, did DH receive a call explaining why guy wasn't keeping appointment?
Nope the guy still hasn't
Nope the guy still hasn't called him. I told him to call the supervisor today but I doubt he will. He thinks he needs to call the lawyer that we can't afford.
This whole thing sounds like
This whole thing sounds like a sham, with a CPS worker having made an appointment with your DH at his place of business and then not showing up or calling to cancel. That is not how it usually works. Until you find out that this is a real investigation, why in the world would he need a lawyer?
I think more for the custody
I think more for the custody aspect because BM is keeping SD from him.
Have you or DH been contacted
Have you or DH been contacted by CPS at all? Are you sure the CPS worker is even real? Could it possibly be one of the BM's friends posing as a CPS worker? I've never heard of a case where they would give one party so much information.
No contact since Friday but
No contact since Friday but DH claims his friend's girlfriend's mom works at CYFD and is "getting details". He's being lazy and lax, why should I care? Well, I am concerned that they'll wait until after the baby's born to investigate our home.
I'm starting to wonder if
I'm starting to wonder if your husband is making this atuff up.
It won't cost him one red cent to pick up the phone and call CPS to inquire about all of this. Why would he even think something that simply requires a lawyer??? None of this makes any sense
DH has way too much going on
DH has way too much going on to make this stuff up and would've got SD this weekend if something wasn't going on. We can't afford a lawyer.
You don't need a lawyer.
You don't need a lawyer.
He's using that as an excuse not to call and find out what's going on.
BM and your husband are both playing games. And you are the one dealing with the stress from their foolishness.
Because I have have problems
Because I have no problems being a snoop, I would take her Dh's phone and hit redial on the last call he got from this investigator guy.
Just to see who answered the phone and how or to hear what voice mail message guy's pick-up has.
The only contact on all this has been a crazy BM (who seems to be too well informed) and two phone calls to OP's DH's phone from some guy .... oh, and a daughter who believes her Dad might be arrested for , not hitting her, but hitting a wall. Is hitting a wall a criminal offense?
Either BM or DH or both
Either BM or DH or both making crap up.
i am wondering about your marriage. You never seem to know what’s going on and no one shares details with you. You are constantly in the dark. Do you and your DH talk? Does he not tell you things? Doesn’t discuss his plans? I personally would sit next to DH (if he was not sharing) and wouldn’t leave until he calls everywhere and gets the exact info and tells me. I’d refuse to not know what’s going on