Shocking, I know.

I am out of town for a work thing; I have been out of town all week. Last night, I (stupidly) answered a phone call thinking it was someone I work with asking about after dinner plans.

Nope. It's MIL.

First question is why DH won't answer her calls. No idea MIL, but I'll let him know you called when I talk to him later since I am out of town.

Half a million questions later about why I was out of town, she drops bomb #2.

OSS got a letter for a letter jacket. Did the school inform DH? Nope. Did OSS? Nope. Did BM? Nope. I found out on Facebook on Friday and told DH.

However, BM told MIL and even invited her to the ceremony that was Wednesday. So BM, GBM, and MIL go to the ceremony. At the end, they hand out the paperwork on the letter jackets. None of the 3 of them have the $75 for the deposit, so MIL took the paperwork to bring it to DH this weekend (great way for her to weasel into my house).

I was blunt. I told her no one, school nor BM, told DH about the awards. She went quiet.

Then she says she went to the church program where the boys performed on Sunday. I said we weren't invited. She goes quiet and makes the excuse that BM didn't tell DH because he wouldn't have gone. I told her we went the last few year's. Oh. Quiet again.

THEN she asks why I didn't go to the same church's tea and cookie thing with her, BM, and GBM. I mean, BM invited me, dontchaknow? I told MIL I NEVER got an invite from BM (not that I would have gone). Quiet again.

When I finally got her off the phone, I called DH and told him to handle it. I'm done being nice. BM is back to outright lying, she's dragging MIL into it, and I'm checking out. I have too much other stuff going on to deal with this. If DH wants me to be around and involved, he better check everyone or I will. I'm getting more vocal, and I refuse to be quiet in the future.

I. Am. DONE.