So...Friday I had another appointment with a dr at park nicollete.  He performed a pelvic exam....and didn't use any type of lubricant on his gloves or on the "jaws of death".  I almost kicked him in the face, no warning just "please scoot to the end of the table...little more....more....more" then WHAM inserts tool of death with NO warning and NO lubrication.  I yelled.  Hurt all fekking weekend.

New diagnosis?

I need "physical therapy" because he's blaming my pain on my pelvic floor muscles.  He also said "you are going to have to fight with your insurance company because most insurance will not cover it".

Great.

Also the right side pelvic pain?  He wants me to see a surgeon about a "femoral hernia".

I have a consultation on Monday.  They wanted me in ASAP but I just left work early last Friday and can't keep losing hours. 

This sucks.

I googled the surgery. 

Shouldn't have done that.  I'm terrified.