I've tried not to log in since the stay at home business...because as helpful as this site is it also fuels my anger. Lol 

but I have to vent....there have been so many things over the last month but this I have to get out.

let me preface this by saying SD12 has not slept here in over 2 years. For the last 4 months or so....SD17 sleeps here maybe 2 or 3 times a month.

SD17 has the largest room and my DD12 and DD15 share the smaller room. 

last year SD17 got a new to us entire bedroom set. Of course my kids were jealous and wanting new stuff too.......I mentioned it to DH and he rolled his eyes and dismissed me in disgust like why would they think they need new stuff....so like I normally do I just left it alone.

i am laid off, kids are home, SD hasn't been sleeping here so I thought you know what....I'm switching the rooms and ordering my kids new furniture and we can re do their room with all the time we have. I wait until dh is at work because he is a nightmare to do anything like this with and it would end in a fight. 
 

so me and my kids do it...it's done and their new furniture I ordered yesterday was just delivered to my garage.

but guess what????? SDs both blew up DHs phone yesterday (my dd15 is BFF with SD17 so was giving her play by play) that they need new furniture too....and DH tells me yesterday that he was just thinking of getting a bed for SD12 and what will he do now that I switched the room.....coincidence? I think not. I am fuming.

so SD17 comes over and sleeps here last night (not her designated night nor has she slept here in months) to make sure DH gets her new furniture.

and now the stupid guilty MFer is going to buy his kids new shit and he is using the "SD12 says she wants to try and start sleeping here" lie.

i am so mad I was shaking....my kids couldn't get new stuff when SD17 got some last year but heaven forbid my kids get something new and his don't.

also, my 2 kids babysit the toddler and I paid them with new swimsuits. The next day SD17 had to get DH to get her a new swimsuit because you know it wasn't fair. Then SD12 shows demanding a purchase since everyone else got something.

i am so sick of the BS. And DH just sent BM like $800 for some medical bills that she decided to bill him for all at once for the year.

DH has been shitty and rude since I moved rooms and bought furniture for MY kids who sleep here 20 days a month. So his kids are laying the guilt on him and somehow it's my fault.

Just to clarify...SD17 has a queen bed and at BMs SD12 chooses to sleep with mom or in SD17s bed and never ever sleeps in a bed alone.....so we had decided last year that it's fine for them to share a queen bed here if they ever stay here.

i just want to punch him in the face.