DH came to me this morning and said BM called. I know when he says this, it's never good. 

SD's practice this week got changed from all day/all week to 3 hours/2days a week. BM told DH that she planned her work schedule around SD's original schedule, so she didn't know how she was going to get her to and from practice. BM had the audacity to ask DH if he could get her to and from practice. 

Now before you wonder why this is such a big deal, let me tell you. We live about 40 minutes one-way (with good traffic) away from BM's house. BM's house is literally a half mile away from where SD's practice is. 

I pointed out to DH how silly it would be to drive down there (in rush hour traffic) take SD the half mile and then what for three hours until it's done? He thought he would just stay for practice. Dude! She's in high school now, you're not going to hang out at her practice for three hours! AND, if BM made her work schedule around SD's original schedule, how was she going to pick her up at the end if she can't do it now? (The end times for practices didn't change, btw).

I think I finally got through to DH. I told him that if BM or SD's brother can't do it, SD needs to contact someone else going to practice, or BM needs to contact the director and let him know. There are ways around this. And yes, SD could walk there. I get not wanting her to walk home when it's getting dark, but she could definitely walk TO practice.

*insert huge eyeroll*