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justmakingthebest's picture

God it is so frustrating to get her 100's of texts calling DH a child molester. He was 18, she was 16. Yes, he was dumb for not wrapping it up but he isn't into kids! Just saw a pretty  girl who was into him and easy,  at a party! 

SS21 has her blocked. DH told me to block her. I just would1 rather know when she is being manic than be blindsided. 

She kept saying he was 20 and she was 15. I have seen SS's birth certificate. She and I are the same age. DH born in 81, her in 83 and SS 2000. I don't know why she is so insistent on perpetuating some lie that DH was some predatory monster. They were both dumb teens. She is mentally unstable which is why she doesn't have rights to any of her 8 kids by 5 guys. Quit blaming DH because she can't stay on her damn meds and be a good mom. Her youngest are like 4ish twins. Grow up and focus on being there for them!

All but one have issues ranging from Austism, FAS, blindness... she could never stay sober for a pregnancy but DH is the bad guy... right. 

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hereiam's picture

Geez, she's a hot mess!

I think these types actually start believing their own bullshit.

shamds's picture

That about sums up all you need to know about biomum since all her previous men didn't die but either dumped her because they couldn't stand her anymore or she dumped them after milking them for all they're worth.

 

justmakingthebest's picture

She is a serial cheater. One of the guys who has the "worst" 2 of her kids, one of them isn't his. He got custody and had her rights terminated for a kid that isn't even his! When I say she is crazy, she is NUTS.

What I don't understand is being baby daddy #3,4,5! 

DH met her, they hooked up, she called a few weeks later to say she was pregnant and they needed to get married. This story was coroborated by HER PARENTS, DH and MIL. DH was leaving for boot camp THAT week. So they got married after boot camp. Once he got to his last training base (he has to go to several schools for his career), 12 month program she moved there with SS21 as a newborn. Divorce papers were filed when SS was 7-8 months old. That is how fast DH figured it out. 

What was fun for DH though, was that she was 17 and technically a minor. She assulted him with a frying pan upside his head. The base couldn't kick her off because she was a minor so DH and SS had to live with his instructor, Military police went in and collected SS, DH's uniforms and brought them to the instructors house. She stayed living there, screwing everything with a penis until the divorce was final. 

She got pregnant and had a still birth, but was trying to claim CS for that baby- which wasn't DH's. She was trying to still claim CS for a non living child. She is freaking nuts. 

As bad as BM2 is, I am so glad that I didn't deal with BM1. I could not have done it. 

shamds's picture

My husbands exwife was cheating on ex highschool sweetheart 1 yr before hubby told her he wanted a divorce and they fought it out in courts another yr.

those 2 yrs she was playing a poor pity me my husband is dumping me while all along she was having a secret affair with a married man whilst married to my husband and had her affair guy leave his wife to marry her. 

5.5 yrs post divorce she had eldest sd23 tell my husband after over 5 yrs no contact to forget her mum was a cheater. Sd's are both brainwashed and excused their cheating whore mum and act like stepdad is a saint. They didn't know biomum was dating. She got married while they were at school and waited for them to come home and says "mummy got married and you have a new dad"

skids know bio mum was having an affair yet 5.5 yrs after the divorce when hubby met me, she tells sd's and hubbys family i'm some half naked Christian whore. Trust me not one of hubbys sister will tolerate that nonsense from her and hubby has nothing but anger and immense hatred for the 16 yrs he wasted being married to her.

She has eldest sd guilt hubby for marrying me and having 2 kids with me. How dare hubby try to move on with positive people in his life. He's supposed to be treated like dirt and an atm by exwife and skids