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It got a bit heated last night about the SD, but I walked out of the room.
Anyway, except for the time H called this cretin, he hasn't heard from her since the day after Father's Day because she is pizzed about the will.
Lets keep count on how many days it will be until she surfaces looking for something. Just for the heck of it.
After all, she knows H and I both have health and physical problems and need assistance. IMHO she is angry that our funds are gong to ourselves and care and nadda to her, as per our wills. She would rather see us thrown in some substandard nursing home as long as she got a buck.
So, let the count down begin. It has already been, what, 50 days. And she wants H to believe she cares about him. RIGHT!
Why don’t you give her all your money
And live in a cardboard box on the street. This will make SD Happy. For the moment. Then thee will be something new to be mad about.. who cares about SD. DY can go live with her .......sorry she doesn't want him just his money
Sorry to hear this is
Sorry to hear this is happening. Some people seem to be very self-centered.
Some people don't seem to be
Some people don't seem to be very self centered, some people like SD ARE self centered and they don't hide it.
Agreed.
Agreed.
Noting yet - just shy of 2
Noting yet - just shy of 2 months. Remember, she lives less than 5 miles away. Am I surprised? Nope.
Willy
Sounds likes shes a sulky turd of a person.
DH - dont hold your breath.
Quality kids want the best
Quality kids want the best for their parents and for their parents to enjoy the fruits of their life's labor. My brother and I are in agreement that mom and dad should bounce the last check they write and enjoy their lives as they have enjoyed life together for 62 years and counting.
Money grubbing beggars are not quality children.
Totally agree.
Totally agree.
You know, it is not like she needs the money as her husband is a journeyman tool and die maker at an automotive part suplyer for Honda.
They do go through money and are, at least were, always financing their home until the latest rate increase. Sooner or later, as you age, that kind of behavior catches up with you.
It will be interesting to see how long she goes without contacting H. I know he hasn't tried to call her lately since she tried to spin to him something that happened between all of us.
Highly paid trades do well.
Sadly, intelligence does not always translate from a skilled job role to personal life including financial management.
Rags you got that right.
Rags you got that right. Her husband will stand there, blandly, and listen to her lie and watch her try to take things.
She said she hoped that in our current wills, her hubby was our executor. No chance in h*ll that would happen. H and I both agree that he would do whatever she wanted regardless of the will.
H considers him a fool and I add stupid as well.
I wouldn't tell any ingrate
I wouldn't tell any ingrate spawn about my will / MY assets n money
I'd hate to see you on five o'clock news as headline of some deranged overgrown kid causing harm bc they thought they'd get a payout upon your death
The audacity of her to even think you all owe her something
I agree.
They should not find out about the Will until is is read to all beneficiaries in the Executor's or Lawyer's office.
To minimizes the odds of someone successfully contesting the Will it may be wise to leave them a token amount to clearly name them so they can't claim that they were mistakenly left off of the distributions of assets. I am not an attorney so speaking with an Estate attorney is a good move IMHO.
She surfaced this morning!!
She surfaced this morning!! Took 64 days but she called H this morning. Crying, she had to have one of her dogs put down last night. They had the vet come out and do it at the house because she didn't want to go to the vet's office.
FWIW it was just a boo hoo hoo fest for her. Not a word asking about how we were doing.
Keep in mind that she only lives 5 miles away and has to shop in the local stores that we are only a few blocks from. That speaks volumes IMHO.
Sad. No time for daddy but
Sad. No time for daddy but wanting to blubber on daddy's shoulder when her fee fees are hurt.
That puppy is blessedly over the rainbrow bridge having a blast with this character deficient human in their puppy past. Have fun doggy.
Face the fact
You see what's going on . There still tine to write her out of your will. SD has to realize if her BF dies first. She is totally out of the money
She does. H told her our
She does. H told her our wills state that if he dies first everything goes to me, and I plan to sell it to go into assisted living. Vice-a-versa with a carve out for family heirlooms, china, silver, jewelry to go to my daughter. In fact, I am downsizing and sending some of it to her now.
That is what blew her fuse. Nadda for her or her POS brother. H's other daughter in CA told us that was great and we should enjoy the fruits of our labor etc. My daughter has never even brought up anything about my will. Though we are a great distance apart she would rather have me alive than the alternative.