I came across this site when someone posted to a horrific post by "marriedaballlesswonder" or it might be "marriedtoaballlesswonder." The woman posted that she told her 15 yo step son that his mom should have swallowed his dad's load the night he was conceived.
I made an account to tell her how revolting that was and to ask if that was a troll account. The moderators deleted the post before I could respond to it.
edited:
Sorry, that first line got kind of jumbled. It should say "linked to a horrific post." A friend linked to the post via facebook.
It's not a bad thing though. Provides a bit of counterbalancing for all the doom and gloom. Everyone has to make their own journey through stepparenting and from the perspective of people in the early stages I think it's good to have SOME hope that good relationships can be formed. If you start out thinking it's going to fail it probably will, it might anyway, but at least if you tried to get the best out of your relationship with your stepchildren you know there's nothing more you could have done to make it work. You get a very distorted perspective on here if any positive posting gets jumped on. Plus there are people whose main issue is the BM, not their stepchildren.
Agreed. I love my SD dearly even though I hate the way that she treats other people, particularly SO and myself. It's not her that I hate, rather, the way that she was raised to behave.
I have to beg to differ... because I won that lottery.
My stepson is amazing. And I am not being sarcastic.
Sure, he gets an attitude from time to time, he pouts a bit when he doesn't get his way... but show me a 9 year old boy that doesn't do those things!
I have been on this site for 6+ years (different user names) and never once have I complained about my SS. I come here to vent about BM. SHE is a piece of work, that one!!
All kids give attitude and pout from time to time. So do adults.
Frankly, I've met very few 13-17 year olds that were fun to spend much time around. All those hormones and drama! Pimples, BO, obsession with how others see them. Gah! I didn't care for teenagers when I was one!
I think I'd be more freaked about someone saying that I should have swallowed my son, or they want to punch my son in the face, or referring to my son as a cum dropping or some other disgusting name I have read on this site. Nothing weird about that, huh? That's normal?
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omg, never heard such a
omg, never heard such a comment in this forum. How did you come across this site and why did you join? lol, but seriously, what gives??
I came across this site when
I came across this site when someone posted to a horrific post by "marriedaballlesswonder" or it might be "marriedtoaballlesswonder." The woman posted that she told her 15 yo step son that his mom should have swallowed his dad's load the night he was conceived.
I made an account to tell her how revolting that was and to ask if that was a troll account. The moderators deleted the post before I could respond to it.
edited:
Sorry, that first line got kind of jumbled. It should say "linked to a horrific post." A friend linked to the post via facebook.
Skids are just people after
Skids are just people after all.
There are wonderful wonderful people out there. Also some miserable excuses for humanity.
Every adult out there was a child at some time. Some people (adults and children) are lovely - others - not.
So, someone who LOVES their
So, someone who LOVES their stepshit comes to a venting site where everyone bitches about theirs? Color me blonde, but I don't get it? :?
I adore my stepson...it's his
I adore my stepson...it's his mom that I have an issue with
I love my SKs. I get along
I love my SKs. I get along great with one BM but hate the other.
I just explained in the post
I just explained in the post above yours
It's not a bad thing though.
It's not a bad thing though. Provides a bit of counterbalancing for all the doom and gloom. Everyone has to make their own journey through stepparenting and from the perspective of people in the early stages I think it's good to have SOME hope that good relationships can be formed. If you start out thinking it's going to fail it probably will, it might anyway, but at least if you tried to get the best out of your relationship with your stepchildren you know there's nothing more you could have done to make it work. You get a very distorted perspective on here if any positive posting gets jumped on. Plus there are people whose main issue is the BM, not their stepchildren.
Agreed. I love my SD dearly
Agreed. I love my SD dearly even though I hate the way that she treats other people, particularly SO and myself. It's not her that I hate, rather, the way that she was raised to behave.
Is this DFof3?
Is this DFof3?
Maybe she's the one trying to
Maybe she's the one trying to get her SSs from the grandparents.
^^^^^^
^^^^^^
I love my SS. I don't love
I love my SS. I don't love his mom.
Right, Disneyfan??!
Right, Disneyfan??!
LOL, nope, not sarcastic. I
LOL, nope, not sarcastic. I meant to type "A!***" like shows up in my signature line. In the late 80s/early 90s, we used "*" to represent a kiss.
I love my step son very, very much. He loves me, too. He is a vital part of my life that I would be devastated to lose.
I have to beg to differ...
I have to beg to differ... because I won that lottery.
My stepson is amazing. And I am not being sarcastic.
Sure, he gets an attitude from time to time, he pouts a bit when he doesn't get his way... but show me a 9 year old boy that doesn't do those things!
I have been on this site for 6+ years (different user names) and never once have I complained about my SS. I come here to vent about BM. SHE is a piece of work, that one!!
All kids give attitude and
All kids give attitude and pout from time to time. So do adults.
Frankly, I've met very few 13-17 year olds that were fun to spend much time around. All those hormones and drama! Pimples, BO, obsession with how others see them. Gah! I didn't care for teenagers when I was one!
I'm glad that you have a great step kid, too
I am confused. Does your
I am confused. Does your stepkid read this site? Why do we care if you love him???? :?
lol! oops! I really shouldn't
lol! oops! I really shouldn't laugh but oh.. what the hell?
Is it any different than
Is it any different than posting you hate your stepkid? I mean does anyone really care about anything that posted on here?
I think I'd be more freaked
I think I'd be more freaked about someone saying that I should have swallowed my son, or they want to punch my son in the face, or referring to my son as a cum dropping or some other disgusting name I have read on this site. Nothing weird about that, huh? That's normal?