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Submitted by trvlngfmly on Thu, 01/03/2013 - 12:49pm

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So I've decided to stop posting here. Its been a good almost three years for the most part.

I'd like to thank each and everyone of you who posted on my blogs and gave me support and advice when I needed it most.

I have my reasons for deciding not to post anymore. The main one is that I feel like I don't belong here anymore. I adopted my SS, there is no BM drama, no skid drama...nothing. We are just an average family with average everyday normal problems. I've been feeling like this for awhile now so I just wanted to thank everyone again for all the help and support.

I hope you all have a wonderful 2013! Good Luck!!

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HadEnoughx5's picture

Submitted by HadEnoughx5 on Thu, 01/03/2013 - 1:01pm

I'm glad you had a good outcome and I'm envious of you. Good Luck to you and Happy New Year!

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Submitted by Krispey Kreme on Thu, 01/03/2013 - 1:01pm

Good luck to you trvlngfmly! I'm really happy for you! I think we all get there eventually! Our lives change and time marches on. The skids grow up (maybe?) and move on to their own interests, exes do too (or in my case, they croak). All the stressful problems from the past will eventually fade and hopefully will improve or we move on to better relationships ourselves and leave the toxic people behind.

I feel so grateful for this site because it has helped me put things in perspective and given me the gift of being able to say how I feel and be understood for once (after 33 years of being treated like a third class citizen). I've read so many posts that resonated with me, only there was nobody to talk to back in the day for me. I'm glad there is now. I am standing up for myself more and I am taking responsibility for how I allow others to treat me, thanks to some good advice from others like me in this site. I've detached from those who want to hurt me and it feels so good!