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Wow, I'm SO irritated as I write this. SOooo, after BM went ape shit about Fss being home early on Easter and FDH telling her no way he was bringing him home early because she had him early last year that bitch called FMIL and told her that if she wanted she could HAVE Fss (like he's a fucking object or something!!!) this weekend instead of FDH if she agreed to bring Fss home early and instead of FMIL telling BM that this was between FDH and BM that fucking bitch told BM "ooh sure I'll get him for the weekend and bring him home early." FMIL then called FDH and told him she, FMIL would be picking up Fss, not asking, telling him. Mind you this is after the whole "do you NEED me to pick up Fss" fiasco. FDH told her flat out, "No, I'm on my way to get my son, You don't need to pick him up." So FDH gets to BM's house, who wasn't there, and was waiting at the door for BMs little sister to finish getting Fss ready and who pulls up? FMIL, that bitch has SOME nerve, She was going to just try to step in and take over FDHs weekend. FDH just looked at her like "what the fuck"" and she sped off. FMIL then starts blowing up FDHs phone telling him that he should be thnkful, yes thankful that she agreed to take Fss home early on Sunday because if not BM wasn't going to allow FDH to have Fss. This bitch really has shit twisted. I'm SO disgusted with FMIL right now so be so conniving. Then FMIL has the nerve to start calling AGAIN both FDH and ME... FDH answers and she asks, real sweet like she didn't just try to go behind FDHs back by trying to take over his weekend, if we're still going to an event she planned for her husband which is like 2 hours out of town. I'm like, really? You pulled this shit today and you really think we want to spend the day with you?? This woman is disgusting. I can't believe someone could behave this way. And to think she was making progress from the discussion we had with her in Feb... pssh, change my ass, she'll never change. UGH... I really feel like she pulled this because she wasn't too sure if we were going tomorrow and also we told her we had other plans for Easter so she wasn't going to see Fss on Sunday nor be able to take him to church so I bet she thought, "oooh great, I can have Fss the whole weekend without my son interfering" and jumped at the chance. Nice move bitch, now you won't see the kid at all. Seriously, what the FUCK is wrong with people??? SMFH
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Wow. I can't imagine pulling
Wow. I can't imagine pulling some shit like that, especially on my own kid. The ONLY way I would intervene and stick my nose in other people's business like that is if I thought the child in question was being abused and would be in danger if he/she went with the bio-parent for the weekend. Like you said OP, SOME. NERVE.
I know... believe me, I have
I know... believe me, I have pretty shitty parents however they would never do ANYTHING like this. This woman is a vile person. I knew my reservations for getting close to be friendly again were telling me something. I can't believe that she would think "Ooh okay, I can just swoop up his visit." Pssh. If FDH wouldn't have already been on his way to get Fss and got there before her who knows what would have happened. This bitch needs to learn her place. She actually said at one point yesterday that she would see Fss at any cost and she wasn't going to bow down to FDH to do so, which is ridiculous considering all FDH wants is for her to respect boundaries. One good thing is though, FDH did get his paperwork yesterday to request a court date to work out a custody schedule. We talkd about it and decided that once that's established FMIL can drive her stupid ass way out to BNF to see Fss on BM's time because we're not going to be going over there anymore. This bitch went WAY too far this time.
I could completely see my MIL
I could completely see my MIL doing something like this to DH if she was not able to control him and get her way thru him. She did TERRIBLE and very desperate things when DH and I first moved in together, unforgiveable manipulation maneuvers, that caused me to go off on her like one has ever dared do before. DH, he had to take my side, it was so obvious, and we were not around her for about a year. In that time, she became BM's best friend, literally bought time with skid, by giving BM 100 dollars every week she picked him up, which was 2 and sometimes 3 times a month because BM did not want him at all. She also bought her whatever she needed for skid, pullups, wipes, clothes, toys, for paid BM's gas to meet her, it was disgusting the shit this woman did just to get her way. I would tell her to kiss my ass.
WOW, I haven't yet gone off
WOW, I haven't yet gone off on FMIL but I'm pretty sure that time is nearing. I haven't hated anyone in a long time but I think I kind of hate this lady, seriouly she's a piece of shit that needs a fucking life. I'm still worked up. You don't demand time to visit with you grandkids, you ask the parents... what's so hard to understand about that? I know one thing for sure, when FDH and I have kids they won't be around that crazy, she's a psycho.
Oooh I can totally forsee FMIL getting even more up BMs ass. The last time we seen FMIL she started in on FDH about how he NEEDS to help BM with extras like clothes, shoes etc.. umm uh uh honey, that's what child support is for. If you cannot support him send him here. She then went on and on about she talked with BM and told her that when Fss starts school for BM to call her anytime if she needs her to buy something for her, but im sure that's just her way of starting to buy BMs time, who knows what else she's going to help her with.
I have never been filled with
I have never been filled with more negativity in my life than I am now and it is all because of MIL, DH, BM, and skid. And it is my fault too, because I walked into this life of my own free will. Telling off MIL was great. Of course I was villainized and made out to be the biggest bitch on earth, because poor little dear sweet church going MIL would NEVER do anything to make someone talk to her that way. WTFEVER. She is just a good fake is all. I had to let her back in after a year or so because DH really missed his Dad and brother, and well, you can't be around them without her involvement, but we are not friends, we don't like each other, we don't get all chummy and go have lunch, we don't socialize, and I see her as little as humanly possible. She has never tried to cross me since though. DH said that no one stands up to her, and since I did, she knows she cannot push me around like she does everyone else so she will steer clear of me. If she could get rid of me, she would do it in a heartbeat.
She and BM got into an argument after months and months of her driving BM nuts with her demands and trying to totally take over and feeling justified in that since she was paying BM, I don't know all the details, I think BM told her no over something, anyway, it ended up being a huge deal, and MIL actually went and consulted with an attorney about suing for grandparent's rights. This happens so much with these nutty grandparents, they have no idea how the system works and they think they can force the parents in court to basically let them have equal parenting time with the kid, and that is not how it works. MIL has it all how she wants it now, she has him about half the time due to work schedules and that is fine with me, because I am not keeping him!
OMFG do we have the same
OMFG do we have the same MIL??? This lady also is a church going bible thumper that thinks she knows everything!!!A plus here is FFIL left her crazy ass a long time ago and now has a lovely wife and 2 lovely daughters so if we cut that bitch off it won't bother us a bit because her and her husband are both weirdos.
WTF!! FMIL went and consulted a lawyer too for grandparent rights!!!! Seriously, I can't get over this!! It's like, You had your chance to have children, why are you interferring!?!?!
I did not realize it until I
I did not realize it until I came on this site just how common these types of MIL's are. I mean I always knew the stereotype existed, there have been movies made about it, Monster in Law with Jane Fonda being one, but I never really KNEW how it was until I was subjected to it myself and then to know that there are so many other women out there dealing with similar issues with these crazy old bats makes me wonder why they end up like this? I think they are major control freaks and now that their own kids are grown, they have no life of their own, so they try to fill the emptiness by meddling in their children's adult lives to the point of obsession in some cases. It is just awful.