My late40s husband lost his job almost 2 years ago. Now he works 4 jobs and does 90% of skids care. I shop, clean, do laundry but don't do much more except random prizes and hugs.

Husband wamted to take a skid off medicaid and put him on my insurance. I totally disagree. I would end up carrying this new dependent until I retire in 20 years. I'm not sure I can work full time for thay long for the best insurance rates. And the cost alone would be 10k to 40k. I need that money for retirement, and in case pur marriage doesn't survive the teen years. Behavior problems are rampant already