I get along with my SD13 very good but I still don't agree that she deserves special treatment just because she doesn't live with her dad, everytime she is with us my husbands mood goes from just normal to super happy n excited all of a sudden he has all the time n energy for the kids n he laughs at their jokes watch's their shows n if not for me pleases her with everything n of course he is not like that with our kids..they only get what they want for special ocasions n if i wanna do something for them we dont have money n yet she gets what a person pays rent for an apt n that doesn't bother him..i just cant stand that he pictures her as lil miss perfect n is happier when she is with us..yet she is so material listick if what we are doing on her weekend aint worth it to her she doesn't come she clearly shows that material is more important than cherishing her time with her dad n brothers..my poor kids ADORE their dad n they dont get half the things or attention she does..I truly feel that if he had to he would def. Choose her over us.. it saddens me n pisses me off cause when she gives him her fake excuses we have to put up with him being upset n yet he still gives her special treatment..I'm getting very tired of this..