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Dr. Phil today- the 18 year old other woman- her man left his wife and 10 kids for her, and what I would do as the wife/child

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Mon, 04/22/2013 - 3:36pm

he left for this girl.

I didn't get a chance to see it but it sounds interesting. It really made me think about what I would do if I was the wife this man left for this little girl. What I'd do if I was one of the kids.

If I were the wife of two decades I'd hire the best attorney possible. I wouldn't PAS the kids but I'd make this man pay in every way possible allowed by law. And I would tell everyone in town about the two of them. They'd be very sorry they ever f*cked with me.

Here's a link to the show:

http://www.drphil.com/shows/show/2022

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Mon, 04/22/2013 - 4:02pm

Karma bus will flatten her in no time. Once her "man" leaves her and her new baby for an even prettier 18 yr old (after she's hit 20) and she'll be right where BM is now.

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Submitted by kathc on Tue, 04/23/2013 - 2:32pm

She'll also be second in line for CS. Good luck to her getting any after his wife is paid for the 10 they have.

Seriously, though, 10 kids?!? WTF is wrong with those people?

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Submitted by Journey1982 on Mon, 04/22/2013 - 4:32pm

Why is everyone just blaming the 19 year old? What about the man? He had a part in this too. He should feel remorse for his actions. He was married and should have never engaged in the affair. In my opinion, he should have been the adult, set the 19 year old straight and walked away from her.

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Mon, 04/22/2013 - 4:39pm

Oh he'll get his too. Leaving a wife and 10 kids for ANY woman is just plain stupid on his part. If their marriage wasn't working, he should've filed for divorce, moved on and THEN found himself a new victim.

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Submitted by Journey1982 on Mon, 04/22/2013 - 4:43pm

Amen! I was just curious why everyone was blaming the girl and no one was saying anything about the man.

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Mon, 04/22/2013 - 4:45pm

I think it's just a given that he's a douche canoe and he'll get what's coming to him! Smile }:)

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Mon, 04/22/2013 - 6:24pm

Oh, I blame him too. I'd make them pay in every legal way possible without pasing the kids.

I just do not understand what a 18-19 year old saw/sees in a man with 10 kids, some of whom are close in age to her.

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Mon, 04/22/2013 - 5:29pm

Maybe...maybe it took a nosedive after #10 was born? Hell, I don't know. I didn't get to watch the show. All I was saying was it appears this man could've done things better is all.

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Submitted by Elizabeth on Mon, 04/22/2013 - 4:50pm

Hey, this reminds me of SD20 except her BF is not married. He has six kids with four women, one of those kids is still an infant, but somehow SD thinks she is the "exception" to his knock-em-up-and-leave-em behavior. Hmph.

I think the man is the bigger problem in this situation (on Dr Phil) because he "should" be old enough to know better. He should be an adult and a father, not chasing after young girls.

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Submitted by Lalena75 on Mon, 04/22/2013 - 8:21pm

Now I'm going to defend the 18 y/o child for a sec, simple because I've been in the BM's shoes with that. My exh first affair I found out about was when I caught him with a 17 y/o in our home, in our bed he was 28. She was treated like family watched our kids had a bad home life, was dating exh's good friend we came along and rescued her helped her through her junior year of high school she stayed in our home, babysat and screwed my husband. I won't go into the awful details I later found out, but I nearly killed her and him when I caught them.
Later she came to me and begged me to hear her side. I did. She had been led to believe I was okay with it as long as it wasn't in my face, she was led to believe we were, and would continue to be one big happy family, and she was led to believe he loved her. Exh confirmed he led her to believe it all, that he used her naivete but that he didn't love her, he messed up blah blah blah. There were 2 other short term affairs he admitted to. We tried to save it but 8 years later he cheated again (same friends new gf too eww) turned out there had been 10 over 13 years, those 3 he'd originally admitted to were just the ones he knew I'd started to figure out.
I'm now good friends with that 17 year old (we'll she isn't 17 now) my dd knows her and knows what happened (found an old journal) and that woman hates my exh for using her. She admits she was young and easily duped that it was going to be this great wonderful thing because I was like a big sister to her, and he was a con artist extraordinaire. A grown ass man knows better than a kid and that's all this girl is foolish little girl.