Just makes me so sad for her. SO went to court to try to change BM's custody because she is living with a druggie. He filed an emergency order asking for full custody until mediation. The judge denied it and SD had to go back to her BM's as per the court order. She sent them to mediation but that is 3 weeks away. Meanwhile SD has been wanting to try out for cheer all of which takes place during her BM's time. She needs a physical which is 35.00 or more than likely free under our insurance. If she makes the squad 150.00 is due right then and the remaining balance is set up over the next 4 months to be paid. SO and BM are supposed to split the extra curricular costs. Well BM just told her flat out no that she didn't have the money and she couldn't do it. I am so pissed this waste of space gets 1700.00/mo in CS and doesn't have money for her physical or cheer??? She and her BF plus her BF's two kids live off the CS that SO pays her for SD. So once their needs (cigarettes,beer) are met then poor SD is left out in the cold. Two able bodied people and neither of them work. I can't fathom how she can live off the CS that's bad enough but her BF and his two kids :jawdrop: :jawdrop: :jawdrop: Just had to vent!!!