Only slightly, but it still makes me feel good when she gets hers:

1) We enrolled SS in the small private school my kids attend. We told them upfront that there have been extensive issues with BM, DH has an RO against her, she has a history of picking up the child without prior notification and scaring him, and we provided them a copy of the court orders. We didn't talk bad about her, but provided facts. Of course, BM saunters into school as if she's MOTY and tries to play all goody-goody. BM purchased school pictures and they got sent home with ours. She called the school and demanded that the PRINCIPAL call us to bring them back to the school so the school could mail them to her. Then later that year, she lied to the teacher about another picture packet that we paid for and had the teacher give them to her. She did not attend any of the parent teacher conferences and has been a pain in the arse. On SS's bday, she showed up with a big cake and a bunch of balloons. They made her leave them at the office and would not let her past. (They wave me in and I just head to the classrooms :-). they also call me to make sure she's "allowed" to pick him up on her eowe if they think something might be off.

2) We recently filed a police report against her for breaking the restraining order. I'm not 100% sure what's happened since then, but she sure has STFU lateley. She even races away during exchanges and basically pushes SS out of the car as soon as we arrive. Where previously, she would play huggy-huggy smoochy baby with SS13 for 10 minutes while we sat there in the vehicle puking in our mouths.

3) SS13 has asked if he can skip one of his weeks with BM this summer. We told him no, but I anticipate that next summer, he won't want to spend much time with her at all.

Nope. Still waiting for that "spell" to work. }:) But when karma finally does show up to punch that beyotch in the face, I'll be there...in case it needs my help.

Years ago when I was married to my exh, the BM was completely crazy. One day during a drop off of SD, BM was standing outside screaming at my then DH like a lunatic. A guy ran by and grabbed her purse and made off with it!! It was actually pretty funny. She was a mean, crazy bitch and still is!! The funny part was all of a sudden she changed her tune. We left and went home and she called his cell all night crying and asking how to cancel credit cards and all this crap.

Sorta, yuck had thus thing about saying what horrible person sh was and that he scum b/c he works at a trash Co. She also would refuse visits and tried to get my son arrested.

Then one day the skids said that yuck had to have all her teeth pulled and get dentures. But on the way home she got out of the car and fell on cement and busted her mouth all open. Um yeah a little karma there.

Karma?

Spent 14 years being told we were treating skids right.

She tells SD that she would never marry someone sk didn't like
She married someone that skids didn't want her to
She was always critizing telling us sks should decide when to visit, and how long.
When SD didn't want to move with her BM told SD she would never miss a visitation weekend for anything.
SD moved with BM.

Skids now no longer visit, now BM has no break.

Her marriage didn't last.....why the kids her two and his two went after the marriage.

What extras we did do, we now don't. We follow the CO. If its not written we don't do it.

Karma?

She's alone
Her kids don't need her now
But she's perfect

Still waiting for Karma to get her in a big way. We did try to help things along by filing Contempt of Court charges on her. She got a $500 fine and a chewing out by the judge.

After about three months, she was back to her same shit. The only difference was, she quit taking DH back to court every time he sneezed!

Personally, I think Karma is that she has another child now (had to have another one, the gravy train for DH's has officially ENDED!!!!) and has decided to make money off children by running a daycare and having a bunch of Foster kids (while sitting on her ass and having the older kids to most of the heavy lifting). I could feel bitter that she is still sitting on her ass and making bank from children, but instead I think about the traveling my DH and I will get to do since we are empty nesters now...versus her being tied to her house because of her herd of children she controls.

Welll....
1. She's hugely obese. She was big before, but she's huge now.
2. She went from DH, who has a great career and makes very good money, to her current DH, who works odd jobs when he feels like it and can't pay his CS, so BM pays it for him
3. She went from living in a beautiful, large home in the suburbs to a filthy two-bedroom apartment in the sketchy part of a sketchy city

But no, Karma hasn't completely caught up with her. Karma's still got lots to give her. Since divorcing DH, she's just moved on down to the life she deserves. }:)

The Karma bus is at her stop now!!

MOTY BM is now fully involved in CPS services. She is being made to take parenting classes and upon completion of that course, she will be required to go to family counseling. Shhhhhh, we aren't to know but the CPS worker let me know what was going on as she knew BM would be quiet.

How dare anyone question MOTY's parenting skills!!??!!