In light of recent events involving both ss and bm and an almost year long custody dispute, I chose to disengage. I made this plainly clear to dh and discussed it in a non-accusatory way. I thought he understood. Evidently, he didn't. I told dh that I would no longer be watching ss, alone, on my personal time and he would have to make other arrangements in the future.

A little background, I watched ss all summer, on my only days off. My bios were enrolled in summer school and camps so I was anticipating having the days to myself, only to be rebuffed by dh "because somebody has to watch ss." And being the domestic laundress and menial laborer I am dh threw me under the bus and "expected" me "to step up."

Well low and behold this morning what to my wondering eyes does appear, but ss with dh and a huge pain in my rear. This is dh's weekend and there is no school today. My bios went to their grandparents house last night for a "sleepover" and my mother thought it would be nice for me to have a morning to myself before work. I was grateful. That however is NOT the case. I was not informed that I would be babysitting this morning. It was just expected. Dh dumped ss, who by the way is sick, with me and skipped off to work to be with his "other" wife twat waffle.

Why the f*ck am I watching their kid? I'm so glad the two of them can go to work and I can serve as caregiver to their sick child. I really wish I had a Princess Mofo in my life. It would be great to have a responsible, experienced child caregiver to dump my kids on. Especially one that I could disrespect, treat like dirt, make demands of and harass. Life would be a dream come true. I get all the responsibilities of a "mother" and none of the recognition. I'm nothing more than a domestic slave, reduced to the condition of servant for dh and twat waffle's disposal.

Is it eff off Friday yet?