fed up
My boyfriend has three grown children. I get along with the oldest two but the youngest is not very likable. She is18 disrespectful and a brat. She only has contact with her father when she wants something.
It literally makes me sick when she comes over to the house. She always ends up ruining the day.
This leads to fighting with my bf. I literally just don't like her as a person, she constantly talking bad about myself or my children on her Twitter.
I have tried to talking to my boyfriend about not bringing her to my home, but his response is "she is always welcome where I am".
So far she has been banned from her own grandmother's home for her rude behavior.
I'm not saying he shouldn't spend time with his children, but is there another place he can take her?
Any advice would be appreciated
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Is the house yours or was it
Is the house yours or was it his and you moved in? Did you move in together in a neutral house? Everyone here is going to tell you that you should say my house my rules but I will tell you that down the road if you and the boyfriend live together and you ban his child and he does not agree you will have problems. You might as well just break up now and not waste all the time because you will end up splitting up.
How would you feel if your boyfriend did not like one of your kids and told you your kid cannot come to my house? This is how your boyfriend is looking at it. He doesn't see his kid in the same light as you and he is probably seeing you as the bad guy. I recommend you make sure he realizes that his daughter's behavior is not acceptable and that he makes the decision to not bring her around. He will grow to resent you otherwise.
It was my house that I share
It was my house that I share with my 3 children who are all under the age of 18. My boyfriend used to live with his mother until she banned his princess from the house. We had already been discussing him moving in here but he said he only has occasional contact with her and she wouldn't cause any problems.
His princess had even gone so far as to tell her family that I take all of his unemployment money for my kids.
She talk s*** about you and
She talk s*** about you and your kids and your boyfriends okay with this? I'm a passive person until you bring my kids into it. Each and every time she posted something I would be in her face calling her and riding her ass like Zorro. Say what you want about me but eff with my kids and I will bring you to your knees and make you sob.
You should post her twitter link so we can all anonymously tell her where to shove it when she talks about your kids, then the BF can't get mad are you for the cold hard dose of reality being smacked in the face.