FUCK
I feel so new at all this mommy stuff. Well I guess that is because I am new. I never got any practice from day one. I basically raised my nephew since he was born until he was 2 but he bounced from my house to his moms house and his dads house so often he got confused on who to call mom. My mother was mom, I was mom and she was mom. Obviously not daddy. He's a low life piece of shit. Anyways, Now I'm married with three step children and none of my own. Yeah I may feel some resentment someday but I cannot let the evil override my life. I am in control of myself. I will always remember that they are not my kids but I shall love them as my own. Women on this site can be bitter if they please but that isn't going to get you anywhere. Kids feel hatred towards the way they are treated or for attention. I cried out for attention when my parents split up because it was the only way for me to feel better about the situation. They ended up getting back together but then I was a teenager so it seemed like all hell was gonna break lose anyways. What type of teenager is just some angel that does no wrong? Not this girl, now I'm 23 and I've learned from my past and I've overcome everything. All of that to become a better person. Well I think I'm doing a pretty damn good job, oh and I'm the coolest stepmom ever says my son. 
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It depends on all the parties
It depends on all the parties involved for it to be a good experience.
Wait until one of you teenage SS' rubs his penis against your butt rubs your boob when you walk down the hall and then the other one picks up a family antique heirloom and smashes it while smiling at you.
Tends to make normal women pissed off.
Omfg!!! Are you serious?
Omfg!!! Are you serious? Thats quite disturbing. What did his dad do? Oh God I would be so mortified.
There was more than just
There was more than just that.
At the time he said I've never seen him do it, but he knew deep down that his son was a little asshole.
SS would stand in his bedroom doorway and when I would walk down the hall, he would walk by and then get really close to me and brush my boobs. The penis thing was when I was standing at kitchen counter and the boy would go to his room tear up a piece of paper and then come and throw them away so he would be directly behind me. After the 3rd time, I felt it. I said 'you have a garbage can in your bedroom'. He said 'I do?' DSO walked in the kitchen right then and I could see in his eyes he was confused.
The boy also stole panties out of the laundry of my DDs (older) and mine. DSO about shit when little skids came running into the living room asking him why Bubby had my panties stuffed in his mattress.
SS is 20 now, hasn't been in my home for more than a few minutes except for this past Xmas Eve where I stayed in my room and locked the door at bedtime.
Thats crazy! I cant believe
Thats crazy! I cant believe his dad didnt believe you. Thank God, he doesnt live with you. Thats so creepy.
Your not a mommy so don't do
Your not a mommy so don't do the mommy stuff . Easy.
Honey, I was just like you up
Honey, I was just like you up until this past August. If the BM is nasty then it makes the kids nasty, no matter how hard you try. I love my OSD like my own but my YSD could be on fire and I wouldn't piss on her.
Say it ain't so, beacub! I hope your DH kicked their butts! That is just flat out screwed up. They have serious issues!
My DD was. I never had 1 bit
My DD was. I never had 1 bit of problem with her, for her it was school and sports.
It made up for my DS who was hell on wheels. I couldn't have lived thru another bad teen.
DD did have 1 blip senior year, she had a party at my house when I wasn't there. I was kinda proud of her. No one was hurt and no one was arrested. It was a pretty good party from what I heard and made their senior shirts about THE PARTY OF YEAR.
SS31 was as well. Good clean
SS31 was as well. Good clean responsible kid who never gave DH a lick of trouble.
Hey some of us were just like
Hey some of us were just like this! In the beginning my SDs called me mom, and always said how cool of a SM I was. But like most kids their loyalty lies with the one who birthed them. Its sad really. The BM could be so awful but the kids would forget that BM did and said horrible things to them. Yet I tell them to clean their room and shit hits the fan.
If things are great in the beginning they can only end in disaster.
>>>Edited to add: why is your
>>>Edited to add: why is your title FUCK?<<<
Because she's a better person now, and the coolest stepmom ever.
If only I had known
If only I had known everything at 23.
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Those "bitter women" on here are far from bitter. We are realistic, which you clearly are not.