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Jewals's picture

So on Father's Day BMs hubby brought the bag of medicine over to my car & handed it in through the window. So that evening SKs told me that their mom was talking bad about me on the way to drop off that morning. Apparently she said she would give daddy the medicine herself but when she saw it was me she made her hubby bring it to me bc ..... "You always come out & do mean things to my mom and you're just mean to my mom"... I could do was laugh ... I avoid drama.. I avoid her when at all possible ..

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Jewals's picture

No I didn't ask her because we don't communicate at all... Everything has to be a big dramatic fiasco with her.

Jewals's picture

I try to ignore it but a lot of times it such crazy lies that you have to pay attention to what's being said and what you're being accused of

newbiemommy's picture

My skids don't say that! Whenever anything started with "Mommy said/thinks/does" I immediately said, "This is NOT mommy's house so keep it to yourself!" I hate the mommy says game!!!

DoubleUteeEFF's picture

^ same here.

I don't entertain SD's blabbers about what "mommy says" or what "mommy does".

But DH and I don't want SD to feel like she needs to hold back or feel uncomfortable talking about her mother and her other home in our house.

So we just say "that's nice" or "Ohhhh. Okay".

Maybe as she gets older I can tell her I really just don't care. Lol.

Jewals's picture

We ignore most of it but some of the stuff they come off with is serious ... Not that they don't make up stuff and tell her ... But she is not above saying the stuff they say she says