They won't even do father daughter time alone!
We went to visit SD28 , she lives in another state with her boyfriend, when the topic came up I told DH let's get a hotel room he and SD insisted we stay at her house because they had an extra bedroom, I was bummed because I can only take so much of SD at a time. Well we get there and she's showing me around and I notice there was no bed in the spare room, I asked her where are we going to sleep? She said "oh we didn't have time to get a bed" so I went and told my DH we need to go find a hotel, by this time it was 7pm and we hadn't eaten dinner yet either because he was sure SD would have something ready bahahaha I don't know why he would even think that. So we go to leave to FInd a hotel and get something to eat and SD and boyfriend are like well come with you, so of course we ended up buying them dinner!
The next morning they come to the hotel to have breakfast with us, yeah another free meal than at lunch we were at the mall, yep another meal for them, after lunch I told DH I wanted to go back to hotel and take a nap and give SD and him time together, her boyfriend said yeah I've got some things to do so you guys can have father daughter time, they about went crazy making excuses and figuring out another plan, WTH? GO SPEND TIME TOGETHER FFS you're always trying to convince people you're so close to each other! Nope DH ended up coming back to hotel with metro nap and SD went with boyfriend! Ugh just needed to vent!
Do any of you run into the fakeness between SD and DH?
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How tacky. That is so awful.
How tacky. That is so awful. God I hate kids...
That's why I wanted to get
That's why I wanted to get away and "nap" the dynamic between them and the mini-wife act as well as her mind games gets exhausting, I don't want anything to do with it but apparently if I'm not around to "play" it's no fun for SD than!
Now that I think about it,
Now that I think about it, chances are, they were expecting YOU guys to buy the bed for you to sleep in and leave it in their guest room! Sneaky little mofo's.
Yep I agree and Daddy did
Yep I agree and Daddy did give her $500.00 before we left so once again she got her way!
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Yes he did! Why? I think he
Yes he did! Why? I think he try's to buy her love and be assured she calls him. She left last year for 8 months and didn't tell him where she was it's one of her many games she plays, I think he's afraid it will happen again and she knows this that's why she did it, she got $500.00 by playing a mind game with him!
My DH and his daughter (23)
My DH and his daughter (23) mostly have an over-the-phone relationship; and even then, they often have nothing really to talk about. She lives about 35-40 minutes from us.
The last time she came over, it was quite uncomfortable.
He loves her, he worries about her, but they are not as close as they used to be and he knows it.
Yes, why would you insist
Yes, why would you insist someone stay with you when you have no bed for them? She thought her dad would say, "Oh, we'll go buy one, then."
Yep and he did give her
Yep and he did give her $500.00 before we left so she did get her way. Again.
Hahaha you are probably
Hahaha you are probably right! Well he's going alone next time!
Yes this same shit used to
Yes this same shit used to happen all the time.
I am so close to Daaaddddy. I love Daaaddddy. I miss Daaadddyyy. I never get to see you Daaadddy. Can we hang out Daaddddyyy.
Daaddddyyy makes a plan, texts/calls skid to make plan to visit and *crickets*.
Its on their time and when they need something.
Yep, it's baffling isn't it?
Yep, it's baffling isn't it?
Wow, this is how I see things
Wow, this is how I see things going down with SD16. DH just said the other night that he wishes SD16 and I could get along because when she moves out and somehow, through some miraculous event manages to live on her own (OK, I improvised that part) he wants BOTH of us to be able to visit her.
I had to walk away before I simultaneously laughed my ass off and rolled my eyes into the back of my head! I can assure you I WON'T be going to visit adult SD16 who doesn't use toilet paper for days on end, leaves, dirty dishes, garbage and food strewn all over her room, hasn't washed/changed the sheets on her bed in over a year, and is hands down the laziest, nastiest slob I have ever crossed paths with. No. Just No.
As disgusting as SD was while
As disgusting as SD was while living here is one reason I didn't want to stay there, I could tell you all a story you wouldn't believe but I'll save that for another blog.