It was truly bitter sweet for FH. He flew to another state to pick up SD3 for her 6month visitation with him. Prior to that things were getting all crazy with FH and BM. Catching her is little lies and then BM didn't hang up the phone and FH heard BMs MIL talking shit.

Anyways, FH, BM and BMH all meet at FH hotel for the drop off. They were super late (of course). SD3 was so happy to see FH that she cried . She wasted no time trying to go upstairs to their room. FH spoke to BM about Skype time because of the major time difference and SD3 said "me no want to Skype with mommy". They said goodbye and FH and SD3 went in their room. By this time FH had ordered food to eat and SD3 says "me not allowed to eat ribs. Mommy said its not good for you" she also just started chatting away about her moms house. SD3 said her name is the same last name as her mom and stepdad. When FH corrected her, SD3 had this genuine look of confusion. SD3 said "my last name is (BMs and BMHs last name). My mommy said he's my first daddy and we're a family and you're my second daddy" as in FH is her second daddy. Then FH corrected her again. SD3 said "daddy are you upset? Are your frustrated?" FH asked "do you know what frustrated means?" SD3 said "it means when you're man or upset and you go and stomp your feet". SD3 said when she goes to the store with her mommy, she cries and her mommy buys her everything. She even went down a list of things she has like a giant doll house and said "I have a horsie that moves like a car with a remote but it's not a car"

Ok I have to point out that this is coming for a 3 year old and BM doesn't thinks that they need to explain to her her who her daddy is because she won't understand. And get this, BM is pregnant. FH only knows that because SD3 told him prior to him picking her up. Then BM felt the need to explain to him that she found out she was pregnant that same day SD3 told FH on the phone. Umm we don't care! That's none of our business. BM can actually explain the difference now since she's pregant but I don't think they will.

Then it's breakfast time. FH ordered pancakes, scrambled eggs and hash browns. When he tried to feed SD3 the eggs, she didn't want to eat it. SD3 said "mommy said the yellow stuff is bad. I can only have little little syrup" FH told her she can eat it and it's ok then SD3 looked like she was about to cry. SD3 asked "am I going to go in time out?" And FH told her no. FH got the idea that they use time out for everything and because SD3 asked for ice cream after dinner, they are still using ice cream as a treat in order for SD3 to eat her food. BM told FH that they do that because she doesn't eat well. Maybe it's because you can't cook BM.

BM must be putting SD3 on a "heathy conscious diet" again like she tried to do when SD3 was a baby. I don't think a child needs to be on a strict diet. FH was confused because if BM is restricting SD3 from foods, why is BM bigger than before?

FH is just feeling like he doesn't know his daughter. I told him she's been gone for 7 months. She's grown a lot and in good ways too. It's going to be difficult taking in her info since it's literally only been 2 days since SD3 has been in his care. He also considered her diet may be the reason why she's skinny. Before she left she had a belly. I let him know that sometimes kids grow out of that and stretch out. I just don't want him jumping to conclusions. It'll just stress him more about the well being of his daughter while she's with her mom. Let's see how things go.

If also expressed to FH that there should be no reason why he and BM can't talk to each other and agree to do things the same way if they are going to raise her. To try and keep some things consistent. But BM basically told him he has no say what goes on in her household. That is true, but if they are trying to raise a decent child together, why can't they Agee or talk? Wishful thinking I guess.