Jan 2nd (last Friday) I was home alone with my boy friend , father of ss10 . Before then , we had dropped off his son on NYE with his grandmother because she wanted him over for the holiday. Grandma let the boy visit his mother the morning of jan 2nd who lives close by which I thought was nice because she totally forgot about him on Xmas (I wish I was exaggerating) .. Anyway , around 11pm while watching a movie we heard a banging on the door. BF of course went to check and there was his son with his drunk mother upset because he was bored his entire visit and angry that she was drinking all day. She had spent his Christmas money on cabs because she doesn't have money unless it's for alcohol. We let him in and not her because of her behavior and her constant screaming. BF ordered her to leave and she refused , he wouldn't let me out of the room he doesn't want her to ever meet me he says it isn't worth it. 15 mins of BF trying to get her to leave the door way as she grasped for their son pulling his sweater making him nervous all because she wanted him to leave with her. the son was crying to allow her in but she finally left because BF warned her saying he'd call the cops. Since then the son hasnt said a word to me and it's been 3 days . I'm convinced her dumb ass is telling him to avoid me . It's breaking my heart and making me angry and something tells me if I ever do see her it's going to get ugly because she's causing trouble