WARNING FOUL LANGUAGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This fucking controlling skanky bitch thinks she has the right to question what SO and I do with MY KIDS. Maybe I am over reacting but I don't think so. So here it goes.

I was busy all weekend with DD and competition cheer, my ds recently got his driving permit and has been out driving in big parking lots for a few weeks now. Cheer takes up a lot of my time, especially prime daytime driving hours.

Sunday I was gone ALL day with cheering. Ds asked SO Sunday morning if he would take him out driving. I said to SO the roads are icy, do you think it is a good idea. SO says yea what better way to learn how to drive in bad weather then to do it, everyday isn't going to be sunny and bright. SO is right, and they were going to be in a big empty parking lot with NOTING close to hit. I tell So yea good point be careful and be patient, SO has never taken ds out driving.

I go on my way, while at cheering a few hours later I got text after text from DS about how good he did, SO actually took him out on the street they were out for a few hours, the kid was over the moon and so was SO. He felt proud and accomplished and obviously more confidence in DS skills them me. I'm a nervous Nelly and not by nature but driving lessons have been nerve racking.

So I get home and SO and I are talking more about the driving and he mentions the SKID MARKS 7&10 called while he was out driving with ds, so he tells them let me call you guys back I need to pay attention to ds. Well because the phone is ALWAYS required to be a speaker, BM pipes in with do you think it's a good idea on a day like today............. :jawdrop: :jawdrop: I lost my fucking shit, and told SO who the fuck does she think she is, last time I checked I BIRTHED THAT BOY, I PAY HIS WAY, I SUPPORT HIM. Now you think you have a say or opinion on why I DO WITH MY CHILD OHHHH FUCK NO! So I say to SO did you tell her it isn't her concern, he isn't her child? No I told her what better way to learn to drive in bad weather then to do it. WTF....so you explained your actions to your FUCKING EX ABOUT MY CHILD, MY SON, ARE YOU FUCKING OUT OF YOUR MIND. We have had conversation after conversation about shutting down ANY inquiry about me, my kids, my money, my life. I don't give a fuck if she asked what fucking color socks I am wearing not your fucking business. I am pissed that she had the balls to even ask, but I am LIVID he felt the need to explain to her why he was driving with MY KID.

Now I understand not every parent will agree with SO and I's decision to take DS out yesterday, and My mom did ask if it was a good idea, but it is MY MOM. NOT PRINCESS GOLDEN UTERUS!!!! SO brushed it off like it was no big deal and maybe to most it isn't but it was to me so I felt I deserved some respect on the matter. I discussed this with SO again this morning and reminded him for 2000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 time MY KIDS, MY MONEY, MY LIFE, MY HOME NEVER EVER GET EXPLAINED OR DISCUSSED TO BM.

Will he ever get it I don't know.

ETA: DD team took 1st place both days in their division. I am so proud of her, she a flyer and has worked really hard on her stunts.