Dear Valued Users,
It's with a heavy heart that we announce the permanent closure of StepTalk.org on August 31st, 2025.
This decision wasn't an easy one. For over twenty years, StepTalk has been a source of support for stepparents around the world! However, over the years, the costs associated with maintaining and upgrading the site to remain secure, meet current standards and maintain availability have become unsustainable.
We are incredibly grateful for your support, contributions and the community you've helped us build. Your engagement has made StepTalk.org a special place and we cherish the memories and connections made here.
We would especially like to thank Aniki for volunteering to be a moderator and for caring so much.
Thank you for being a part of our journey and we wish you all the best.
Sincerely,
Dawn and The StepTalk Team
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Right??!! LOL I did the
Right??!! LOL I did the switch yesterday and hardly ever do by myself. As I'm driving there in my sweats, slippers, DH really old oversized sweatshirt and my hair pulled back I thought to myself "great - shes gonna be high polished and sparkly" Nope! She got out of the car had ripped yoga pants, hoodie, raccoon eyes from not washing off mascara and flip flops with gnarly toe nails!!! YAY!!! She even told me I looked cute with my hair pulled back. Keeping it classy!
I felt so much better when
I felt so much better when she got out in a shirt to small & jeans tucked in the back of her boots lol
It's an ego thing that
It's an ego thing that everyone has. We feel good when we look better than those we don't like. It can be this way with any person we don't like, not just BMs. It's human nature. If you have a coworker you don't like then you enjoy it when you feel like you are doing a better job or you look better.
I'm most def not insecure to
I'm most def not insecure to the psycho BM ... I'm better than her in every way .. I just find it funny that When I look like crap she's the one that shows up
That is my point! I felt like
That is my point! I felt like poop Monday and there she was snickering .. Oh well I'll just be a secret Facebook status update lol.. Now today .. I ride with DH bc we were going. Out after exchange and she was psycho.. Speeding through the school parking lot and screaming at us ..whatever ..lol
Yes I do like to look better
Yes I do like to look better than her but I'm not gonna lose sleep bc she saw me look like death lol
Obviously I don't care or I
Obviously I don't care or I would make sure I'm dressed to the T when there is a chance she could be there .. Clearly I usually look like crap.
My personality/soul/heart,
My personality/soul/heart, etc is better then BM's, so even if she saw me looking like total shit and she looked like a million bucks, it doesnt matter what is on the outside. Its what is inside that counts.
I try to always look nice to my standards, but I wouldnt go out of my way to look better just because I was going to see BM. She's a bitch, she is going to have something nasty to say about me whether I am looking good or looking "bad".
*snorty* i dont care if i'm
*snorty* i dont care if i'm fresh out of bed and without a shower, i'll always look better than dumbass. meth-addled-whore is her style of preference.
I'm uncomfortable and
I'm uncomfortable and pregnant - I think my SO is lucky when I feel good enough to put on pants that resemble jeans instead of my various fabulous maternity sweaters and stretchy pants. BM ALWAYS dresses like she's going to the prom for pick ups/drop offs :sick: , and my SO thinks I'm beautiful even when I'm crying my eyes out because my favorite chef didn't win the current episode of Chopped. (Hormones
) I don't care, she'll never be able to have what I have. 
Hahaha to funny about
Hahaha to funny about Chopped.