I'm sooo stupid. I get an automated text from SD's teacher to make sure she packs her lunch tomorrow for the field trip. I should have just ignored it. BUT NO, I send it to SO thinking he will talk to SD later and remind her.

Of course, that's not what happened. He text Shitty (BM). Shitty ask him if he is going to EXSD HS Graduation.

EXSD asked SO if he was going a few weeks ago. He asked her if he needed an invitation. NOTHING was communicated after that.

Well, I guess SO and Shitty have been texting today and come to find out her graduation is this Friday. We already have plans to spend the weekend in Orlando.

SO is texting me about how horrible he feels now that "the only man she calls daddy" won't be at the graduation. He just can't believe he will be at Disney instead of this graduation.

Oh, FFS...
Lets look at some facts
EXSD and SO have made ZERO effort to get together about this graduation
EXSD NEVER told SO the date or time.. Or if he needed an invite.
They have had very little to do with each other since the divorce.
She has been to our house three times in 5 years and twice was just to babysit for us and immediately went home later.

I'm so sick of this shit!! I could scream.

Well, if EXSD's "Daddy" really wanted to go he would. Orlando is only 1hr away from where we live. Me and the kids can go and have fun while SO sits for 3+ hrs at precious EXSD's graduation and then met us there.

Why do people have to pretend like they have relationships they don't. I find it nauseating that an 18yr old still calls him daddy and has nothing to do with him or him with her. Let's stop all the lip service about these EXSkids. Damn, It's enough dealing with the current Skids!