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SD6 was so tired she had to sleep at school!

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Submitted by I.hate.cats on Fri, 05/29/2015 - 6:42pm

BM sees nothing wrong with the fact that she drags SD6 out of bed at 5 a.m. and forces her to spend two to three hours at the daycare before school. In spite of the extra early wake up time, the hag put a TV in SD6's room because TV is easier than being a mother and God forbid she read her a bedtime story and tucking her in at night. The poor kiddo was so tired at school that her teacher had to let her take a nap instead of doing her classwork. It's so disgusting to me that this has been going on but the hag won't give us placement because she'd hate to lose her government benefits and child support. And while I'm at it, when I picked her up she had dressed her in a the downright HIDEOUS cheap oversized chiffon shirt with pink stretch pants and black and green K-mart gym shoes. Despite knowing damn well it was our weekend and that she's got 8 shirts, a pair of jeans, a skirt, a pair of capris and FIVE pairs of shoes, that we've bought, she couldn't have put any of our nice things on her.

DH is MIA which is just fabulous when I'm stuck in the house with FOUR kids, including an overly tired SD6 who's driving the older kids crazy with her crabby attitude. Just another FML Friday, lol. <~ which should probably read a little more like SOL for sobbing out loud. Sad Well, I guess I'll spend this time writing BM an email listing all of our belongings that we expect back by Sunday. I know I'm fighting a losing battle but my only other option is to start keeping receipts and deducting it from child support which I'm sure will go over wonderfully. Damn it, I didn't sign on for this.

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Submitted by Disneyfan on Fri, 05/29/2015 - 11:31pm

If kid is getting up that early, the man must have a job.

The fact that there's a center open that early means there is a real need for it in that area.

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Submitted by Disneyfan on Sat, 05/30/2015 - 8:22am

LOLOLOL

I will never understand why people complain about BMs who work.

BM doesn't work. PROBLEM
BM has a job.PROBLEM
BM dresses kid in designer clothes. PROBLEM
BM shops at a discount store.PROBLEM

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Submitted by Disneyfan on Sun, 05/31/2015 - 7:16am

Sorry, but I do not like cats. Too damn moody for me. They are fun to watch. The way they move and eyeball people in the room, make me think they are always plotting something.

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Submitted by Sparklelady on Sun, 05/31/2015 - 11:48am

Sorry, I'm sure you feel at wit's end, but the complaints you have are really very petty. If you haven't tried yet, find someone to talk to, to help you see the forest for the trees. I've been where you are. Good luck!

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Submitted by kathc on Mon, 06/01/2015 - 3:22pm

Seriously if the BM can't handle putting the kid to bed at an hour that would allow her to get enough sleep before daycare at 5am then BM is being a shitty parent. I agree that if the SD needs to go to daycare so BM can go to work then there's nothing wrong with that, that in and of itself is not a reason to complain, but the fact that BM is letting the child stay up all night then sending her off at 5am to daycare IS. (I suspect if the child were going to school and not daycare before hand she'd still be going without enough sleep.)

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Submitted by I.hate.cats on Sun, 06/07/2015 - 8:28am

As for the cats, which seems to be such a topic of discussion, I dislike them. They are not for everyone, I have three dogs that I love dearly and a cat that DH purchased for ADs after BM broke up w the douche last time and he took his cat which really upset SD6. The cat is evil, it smacks my dogs and although it is not Siamese it reminds me of the scene in Lady and the Tramp. Although I do not like the cat, I am never mean to it, nor would I ever harm it in anyway.

More than half of the women on this board hate their skids and I don't judge any of you for that. As for the clothing, BM sends her over in clothes that are too small so we send her to school in clothes that fit. SD6 never comes back in our things which she says she doesn't even wear at BMS,they're piled up in a drawer.