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Would you like to know why I have so much trouble with SS not listening to me?

Wah-wah-11's picture

Because ....

I refuse to let him ride with me when we have to take separate vehicles. Really DH because I'm pretty certain I stopped letting him ride with me bc he wouldn't listen to me and is rude and disrespectful. And maybe bc he puts our 3 year old up to bad behavior ...

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misSTEP's picture

Your DH is an idiot. No wonder that SS is an asshole. He takes after daddy.

nunya1983's picture

Yes! If everyone keeps making excuses for the kid's behavior he will never learn to behave! That's sd's problem, everyone she acts out she makes excuses! "I did xxx because there were kids who were mean to me today." "I did xxx because I'm sleepy" (1 o'clock in the afternoon, lights are out at 8:00pm here, and she wakes up around 8:00am, 12hrs is plenty of sleep for an 10yo)

Wah-wah-11's picture

Oh yes we went through the he's tired phase .. I was like he's 6 & yes I get grumpy when tired but I control it & he has to learn to do the same.. And we went through the he has epilepsy.. That's sad and I feel bad for him but you can't let him act up and beat the shit of stuff and not correct him bc he has that.. Heard the his mom is crazy what do u expect ..

DaizyDuke's picture

Your DH actually said "SS doesn't listen to you because you don't let him ride in the car with you when we drive separately."
Really?? are you pulling our legs? Is your DH doing drugs?

:?

Wah-wah-11's picture

No exact words ..he said I had to take bs and SS with me and he would take the other step kid (which gives me no problems other than normal kid stuff).. I said no I wasn't taking SS bc he doesn't mind me. So he said "that right there is your problem with him" I said "what you just send him with me bc he doesn't listen to you & you don't want to deal with it" so he said SS always listens to him. So I said then he can go with you..

But every time I refuse to take SS with me any where he says that. I'm sure he's saying bc I refuse to keep him when DH isn't there .

Wah-wah-11's picture

Bahahaha-- I'm only saying if he wants to send a step kid with me he needs to send the nice one not that ass hole one

wth was I thinking's picture

Maybe that's why my skids don't listen to me either!

Oh well, worth the risk. Blum 3

Glassslipper's picture

He just said that because he isn't pleased you washed your hands of the naughty one. Rather than DH correcting the behavior the child is showing he can blame the behavior on you. Problem solved, its not the kid, its not the parenting its the wicked step mothers fault!
That's lovely, Just freaking lovely! This is why they write fairy tales about us!

Wah-wah-11's picture

EXACTLY

Wah-wah-11's picture

That doesn't work with my hub. Yesterday it was bc he didn't have room for 2 kids bc me and the steps packed his vehicle diff from they we way they did it before. I said seriously bc I out half of ot in my car was not used for packing stuff on the way there. She got mad and told SS to go with him that he would make room. I do feel bad for the kid bc here we are arguing over who is gonna take this 1 kid.. Daddy doesn't want him to go with him and SM doesn't either.. But step mom doesn't bc he won't mind her.. I think his oldest is his favorite kid so any chance he gets he wants to take just him