Hmmmm hey DH, it's not just me who hates skids!
So most of you know that 95% of the time I simply don't like my skids. I don't dislike them because they are not mine, could honestly care less about that.. nope, I don't like them because they act like assholes and well, I don't like assholes.
So it's funny that in the past 6 months, not one, but TWO of DH's friends who are living with their own skids have told DH their woes about how they "don't get along with their skids" Yep. One of DH's high school buddies has been living with a gal we all went to school with and her two kids. He told DH a few months ago that he can't stand her kids. DH didn't elaborate and I didn't ask.. don't care. That statement alone is enough. Then yesterday, DH tells me that another friend of ours who just got married to his long time live in GF in Vegas in June, is getting divorced. :? Apparently she has a boyfriend, and told DH's friend to be out by the first of the month (the house was hers prior to them getting married) DH said his friend was stunned, but good with it, because "he doesn't get along with her kid anyway". HMMMMMM
I really hope DH sees that it's NOT easy pretending to like someone else's kid ESPECIALLY when they act like asswipes ya know? And it's not just ME being a bitch and not putting up with BM and skid horse crap.. some of his own damn friends don't like it either!
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Yeah, DH doesn't like SS16
Yeah, DH doesn't like SS16 all that much either. He just sees that he's not likeable. He's lazy, a liar, and totally manipulative. He loves him, sure, but what exactly is there to like? When friends of mine met him in the past, they were like, "What the hell's wrong with HIM?"
DH flip flops... there are
DH flip flops... there are days that he will say... I never wanted those kids, I wish I would have worn a condom, they embarrass me etc... but then there are days when they are the best thing since sliced bread and I'm an asshole for not worshiping the ground they walk on and feeling sorry for them. It's kind of maddening, because I really never know which kind of day it's going to be :?
DH has yet to say he regrets
DH has yet to say he regrets the skids being born, including the one that turned out not to be his, but I wish every day that DH had never met BM in the first place. The rest of his life will be affected by her and her minion-children. He does, however, hate the way they're turning out and doesn't hold out much hope for them ever changing.
I dislike PrincASS16 because
I dislike PrincASS16 because he's an a$$hole. Over the weekend, DH said that PrincASS, that brave brave boy, told other kids who wanted to fight him (cuz he's an a$$hole) that his Daaaaaaaaaaddy (my big bad Marine) would come after them.
:jawdrop: :jawdrop: :jawdrop:
What a twatwaffle of a boy!! Because my husband would beat up a CHILD. Because my husband would beat up a father whose child was mean to the speshul wittle snowflake PrincASS or hit the wussy. PrincASS seriously needs someone to stick a foot straight up his arse.
My SO has a friend from HS
My SO has a friend from HS that has 4 kids (by 3 guys) and the oldest is 15 with a kid (had him when she was 13yr old)...Well, this babymama friend started dating another friend of his from HS and guy friend moved in almost immediately with babymama friend. About 6 months later that guy just up and leaves.
SO was mad at the guy friend for leaving babymama friend because "she's so sweet" I said, I can understand why he left. It's not easy dealing with some else's kids...And you know if one is pregnant at 13, something isn't right. SO got so mad at me. Said, well he knew she had kids. Yes, Yes he knew she had kids. But he didn't KNOW what living with someone else's kids was going to really be like.
Your DH needs to find better
Your DH needs to find better friends. That woman sounds disgusting!
The thing with my dh is when
The thing with my dh is when he was married to Puke's bm he was a step to her other kids. He couldn't stand most of them from what he has told me. His ex would let her kids do whatever and dh had to just live with it.
Hmmmm....sound familiar?
It is unnatural to love
It is unnatural to love someone else's kids in my opinion, and def not the same love that you feel towards your own child.
My love for my husband is completely conditional. If he ever cheats on me, love over, if he ever abuses me, love over, any substance abuse issues, love over.
The love for my children is unconditional. It is completely different. If I divorce my husband, I will still be their loving parent. If I divorce dh, I will not have anything to do with skids. Nor they with me.
I will never forget one, early in my relationship my husband had the audacity to ask me why I couldn't love children that didn't come out of me. bahahhahahhahhahaha!!! seriously?
I will never forget one,
I will never forget one, early in my relationship my husband had the audacity to ask me why I couldn't love children that didn't come out of me.
Oh my! I hope he had a speedy recovery in the hospital after you punched him in the nuts!
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