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Annoyed1's picture

Well ladies, it's official! I finally left my boyfriend/fiancé/common law partner of 11 1/2 years and I honestly couldn't feel more relieved!!!! I had my best friend come over and help me clean and pack his belongings as he and his 2 sons loaded everything up and moved it to their new place. I feel like the weight of the world has been lifted off of my shoulders! My house is spotless, everything's in order, and it's quiet and so peaceful! He was getting grumpy at the end and was complaining about everything and it just solidified it all for me. I am just so happy right now. Everyone's been calling me to see if I am ok and seem surprised how happy I am. Should I be sad?!? Should I feel bad that I'm not sad?!? Cause right now, I feel on top of the world. I've checked out a long time ago, and was worried that I wouldn't follow through, but I finally did!!!!

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Indigo's picture

Good for you. Presenting you with a lovely potted plant as a "house-warming" present ... welcome back to your home. Welcome back to your true Self.

Okay, it was merely a cyber plant, but it was really healthy and had a great bow. Wink

hereiam's picture

I am so happy for you!

The fact that you are not sad, means it was past time for this to be over.

AlreadyGone's picture

Congratulations on finding your way back to YOU, and Welcome! It really is better on the other side, lol. Wink

furkidsforme's picture

I think this is the true test of when you should leave. When thinking about leaving puts a smile on your face, it is TIME!!!!

Good for you, enjoy your new space- both literally and figuratively- and make it yours again.