DH hung up on BM the other day...
BM kept asking DH if "they could talk". He finally text her back and said "call me now, or never". So she called. Basically started the conversation off the same way she did when they had mediation.
BM- What do I need to do to see SS more? The way I see it, there is no reason he shouldn't be spending at least every other weekend with me.
DH- Well, he doesn't want to, there is one good reason.
BM- I don't understand why you aren't encouraging OUR son to see his mom. When I was younger my dad made sure I saw my mom even when I didn't want to.
DH- Well, you were just a little brat and didn't get along with your mom. SS has good reason to not want to be around you. He doesn't trust you.
BM- I get that I had a rough time before, but I am not my mistakes I am **BM's NAME**
DH- Yeah well **BM's NAME** makes stupid mistakes and now her kid doesn't want to have anything to do with her. So...
BM- WHAT MISTAKES??? Ok, yeah, so I did drugs, but that doesn't make me a BAD MOM
DH- Well.... it kinda does.
BM- YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO CALL ME A BAD MOM, I HATE YOU FOR THAT
DH- Ok, well I don't care about that. What I do care about is, I was thinking the other day, if something happens to me and I die, SS will be placed in your care, and none of us, including SS want that. So I am going to have to take you to court to have it in place that SS will stay here if something happens to me.
BM- **FLIPPING OUT** now you want to take my son away from me??? And give him to YOUR WIFE??? **RANT RANT RANT BLAH BLAH**
DH- well, I am not really taking him away from you, you aren't around, and we talked to him and this is what he wants. He doesn't WANT to live with you. He wants to stay here. And if I die, I don't want him to have to grieve my death AND fight to stay here with his family too.. that's messed up and I can't believe you can't see that.
BM- RANT RAVE RANT RAVE- I don't believe ANYTHING you say, I think he is being BRAIN WASHED
DH- **CLICK**
She text him a few times telling him that she hates him, and that she will never stop fighting for her son. DH ignored her.
Not sure when she "started" fighting for him... but, whatever.
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I'm sure this may not be
I'm sure this may not be popular on this board but,
I wish they never developed Narcon to bring ppl OD'd on heroin, etc back to life.
Kids with severe allergies can't get epipens (thanks to the people I work next door too, Mylan pharmaceuticals) that are too expensive, but junkies can be saved over and over again for free.
It's true. And frustrating.
It's true. And frustrating.
I agree. The mayor of a city
I agree. The mayor of a city near where I live is trying to make a "safe house" where heroin (and other illegal drugs) users can go and shoot up under medical supervision. Like you, I don't want to start a debate, but I have approximately 1,768 problems with this. :?
Totally agree with you. In
Totally agree with you.
In Vancouver BCCanada there is a safe injection site. Junkies bring their illegal drugs (who knows where they got the money for them from) and have access to clean needles and medical attention if they overdose!
It baffles me why their lives are more important than people who didn't decide to have a disease. Yes, I have a problem calling addiction a disease.
She has to complete rehab to
She has to complete rehab to be able to go back and change the terms of the visitation. So what she is asking is how she can get SS to WANT to see her. Well, we can't answer that. DH told BM somewhere in this conversation that "whatever happened when you were seeing him without supervision, has made him NOT want to see you". We don't know WHAT it is, and SS doesn't like to talk about it, but either way, he doesn't want to be alone with you. She wasn't asking to see him without supervision (yet) she was asking why he won't talk to her at all.
She doesn't really blow up SS's phone. She will text him every few days. Most of the time he ignores it. She called him last week, he ignored it twice, then she text him and he replied "I can't talk now". He was home alone, probably watching TV. He didn't want to talk to her. Her blowing up his phone actually really pisses him off, so the more she does it, the less he responds to her. Most of the time lately, he doesn't even open her texts at all.
She is a complete moron. When
She is a complete moron. When DH said something about "if something happens to me" she said "what do you mean? what if something happens TO ME??? Then what???". Dh was like Uhhh... then SS will be sad, but nothing changes otherwise, he doesn't live with you. DUH!!!!
Oh, and she is so twisted that she thinks SS told her he didn't want to bring a friend out to her house because he wants to spend "one on one time" with her.... no, he doesn't want to take a friend out there because he is EMBARRASSED OF YOU!!! Wake up IDIOT!
She is in such denial. Her
She is in such denial. Her stepmom informed me that she talked to her last week and flat out told her "you looked HORRIBLE on your bday, and SS noticed. He was embarrassed to be seen with you in public". At least someone is real with her.
Wow, that was eye opening
Wow, that was eye opening huh? BM still looks a lot like she did a year ago, although, it does look like she has put on some weight. Her skin and teeth are still wretched though. And her stepmom said she was talking a million miles a minute on the phone the other day. She called to ask her dad for money.
She said it was for a car....
She said it was for a car.... she still doesn't have a car **eyeroll**. Her dad has really stopped helping her in any way. FINALLY. I don't know if he did or not this time.
Yes, we hear from Trackmark
Yes, we hear from Trackmark Trixie on rare occasions when she feels like saying she is a mom. She will go on and on about how she is a good mother. When asked what she has done for the kids she has nothing to say but repeat that she is good mother. This from a woman who has never taken them to the doctor, who has never paid for single school lunch, who refuses to pay any child support, who will not call for months and months on end to even check on them. She has never supported them emotionally, physically or financially. It's disgusting.
Sorry you and your DH have to listen to this BS.
Oh Trackmark Trixie went almost 2 years with out seeing her son and 1 year for her daughter.
Haha, you are silly. No, she
Haha, you are silly. No, she didn't ever go back to rehab. She claims all she does is work. But she works part time at a little market in the tiny town she lives in. So... really?
You and me both..
You and me both..