SO just sent me an email the lawyer sent him. BM is so graciously letting him have the 6 weeks required from standard visitation.

I have so many words right now. Back in March he and I started looking at summer. She was fine with daughter (7) coming for the 6 weeks but threw a fit and tried saying SO only got son (4) for two weeks.

Nope look at the paperwork you've been shoving down SO's throat. Siblings stay together.

We had multiple meetings with the lawyer, each time before we'd ask if she wanted anything adjusted. Her response to us was basicly why would I tell you talk to my lawyer. Months go by and nothing from her lawyer about visitation so SO let's her know he plans to let the kids do camp one of the weeks he has them.

Then she trys to adjust the time making it seem like it would benefit him. No it creates more travel which he pays for and gives him less time total with the kids.

Her next remark "don't you care about what damage it will cause the kids." Women you didn't give a damn about daughter coming but now you don't get special time with baby boy all alone.
He pointed out that if they fight in court this is what would most likely happen. Also it works for so many other kids in this area so why not give it a try. They can always adjust later.

So he continue to talk to the lawyer. SO pushing the fact we need to get this settled because he needs to get them signed up for camp. He finally gets the go ahead he will have them that week. So he signs them up and pays in full last weekend. Sends a copy of the recipt to BM all while reminding them it's not just that week bit the whole 6 weeks.

Friday he gets a call from lawyer. Turns out BM is again trying to claim that SO doesn't get son but 2 weeks. SO tells lawyer to look two paragraphs down and that BM knows that. SO was able to provide the messages where they discussed this and he stick to wanting the 6 weeks like it says. Also that she's know since atleast March from him and should have known sooner since she's the one that pushed the using the visitation agreement.

So finally now BM is giving up and 'letting' him have the kids the 6 weeks but since she works all weekends she wants to have them during the week. No problem SO is cool with that except she trying to demand them the week of camp.

No go lady we cleared this. It's done paid for and we've got the recipt and you had a copy sent to you.

I'm really getting sick of this idiot.

She tried just a few days ago to demand to know what time SO is being the kids home Saturday since it's Mothers Day Weekend. So clearly she knows from the paperwork she gets them. I don't think she liked his answer that he will being them back 9 AM on Sunday like the paperwork says.

It's just frustrating because SO and I looked over the paperwork very closely. We start to plan things EARLY. I'm not anywhere near disengaged from the kids and I don't mind helping as long as he pulls his fair share which he does. He's done his part and she keeps trying to screw him.

She trys playing the "We follow it when it works for me and you go F yourself game."

That's it vented now.