Last night I was shopping for SO's birthday gift before picking him up from work when I got a 911 text from BM. It said daughter trying to kill herself & hospital is trying to discharge her. 2nd text in all caps said please I need y'all here with me. I picked SO up and we headed to hospital. I am concerned with this kid and want her to be ok. Have to admit tho - on the way to the hospital, I was thinking about the text and how she now needs us when she won't co-parent with SO unless it benefits her; she won't give him info on his kids, etc. Anyway, we get there and find out the daughter had left the home for awhile again - don't know how long. Her boyfriend's parents had gone out of town, so she stayed there. BM & SO think she's trying to get pregnant on purpose. Sometime after that, the boyfriend dumps her; BM says boyfriend treats her like crap anyway. Daughter wants stuff back from boyfriend, he says no...more drama ensues. BM says she thought about having someone "get" the boyfriend. Daughter tells mom, sister, etc she wants to kill herself and takes too much of one of her meds. BM takes her to adolescent psych ward where she was last summer. She tries to hurt herself while there (or said she was going to - don't know which) so they send her to children's wing of same hospital where she had been for past 2 days when BM finally called us. We knew none of this by the way. Staff tells us that after being evaluated, they were releasing daughter and wants on her on out patient treatment. They also said they were calling CPS on BM (that's what she told us). BM keeps telling them daughter is threatening to kill herself. Head psych wasn't at hospital last night...a different doc said that these threats were new to them. She spoke with daughter alone and then told us they were keeping her overnight. We all went into daughters room to discuss, but daughter said she didn't want her dad in the room. BM told her that her choice was him or me and she chose me but I said no...your dad is staying and I left the room. There were other revelations BM told us that again, SO has no knowledge of. Daughter stopped taking some of her meds; took too many of one of the meds which led to her going to the hospital in the first place. She also didn't take her SATs and most likely will not graduate high school next year. Daughter doesn't want to go home but says its not because of the mom. She wants to go back to the teen psych ward (where it was like an overnight camp). I told SO separately that his daughter better watch what she's asking for cause she'll be 18 in one month and an adult psych ward is WAY different than an adolescent one. As of today, the docs are looking to place her somewhere. Turning into a nightmare.