I don't share my phone number with my husbands family. Only one person has it (my SS) and he knows that I don't want other family members to have it. I trust him not to give it out. DH family is high drama and I don't get involved.

Somehow this is causing a problem with DH's family. I told my husband if there is something that I should know they should just call you. Well this didn't go over very well. Now my SIL is starting to ask for my number almost on a weekly basis. My husband thinks I should just let her have it and it is no big deal. Well it is a big deal to me. First of all I don't want to text or talk with her. And I don't trust that she will not give it to other family members. I have know problem talking with her and other family members when I see them. But honestly I have nothing in common with them so I feel no need to take things further than what it is. It works for me.

So last night we kind of got into it. I said you don't have my brothers number and he says that it different he doesn't like my brother. Well it took everything in me to say well I don't like your family either but I kept my mouth shut about that. The bottom line is DH family always has some kind of problem or drama going on and I refuse to get involved with it. I told my husband your family you can deal with the drama. I am not giving my phone number to anyone that I don't want to. He thinks because it is his family I am being ridiculous.

What do you think?