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doglover1's picture

well they let BM out of rehab early. She called Bf and asked if Sd8 could be there when she gets out. But..(always one of those) she cant keep her for a while cus she has out patient crap yada yada. I know BM wants to look like the mommy who is so so great. SO happy to she her daughter to everyone eles. But when it comes to taking care of her...it cramps her style. I dont care how much theraphy this woman gets...she'll never change.

Gestalt's picture

Devil's Adovcate here (LOL) But what if we thought of it as...."Mom is getting out of treatment and wants to see kiddo since it has been a while. However, Mom understand's that she is not yet established or stable enough to fully take on the responsibility that extended parenting time would entail. Therefore, Dad has some extra time with kiddo."

I mean, would Dad really want kiddo in her care right now anyway??? I know if my ex just exited rehab, I wouldn't want kiddo spending a whole heck of a lot of time there until ex was more stable.

doglover1's picture

but it it so much like her..Ill pray that you are correct.

Gestalt's picture

I hope, for the child's sake that mom is able to get herself together.