I have a bit of an issue here where my fiance is very friendly and close with his ex's parents. We live about 8 hrs away from them all (including ex and son) but FH doesn't intereact much with his ex. She has alot of her own issues and basically doesn't reach out to him concerning their son. He tries to contact her and his son most of the time and he's the one that initiates visits. There is no legal custody schedule in place, but most of the time when he asks her to have him for the weekend she's ok with it. So theres really no problem there. The problem is I think he is overly close with his ex's parents. They talk on the phone or email at least once a week. They just talk on and on about his ex and everything thats going on with her. My fiance is very curious about her going ons and its very irritating to me. There is always something going on with her and so they always have something to talk about. His ex's parents always want him to talk to her and help her out. And of course he does. The thing is when they were together, her parents didn't like him at all and wanted them to break up the entire time they were together and now that they've split up they love him like their own son. My fiance probably doesn't know that it bugs me when he talks to them. I just feel like why must they talk about her all the time. It makes me feel like he isn't over her. Why does he still care about her that much? It makes me feel like he doesn't respect me. And he really wants us to get married right away. We've been together a little more than a yr and a half. I love him dearly. And also he doesn't try to reach out to my parents at all. I feel like if we're going to get married he should at least try to get to know my parents instead of continuing the inappropriate intereactions with his ex's parents. His parents and I get along really well.