Again, thank you everyone for your insight and information! My husband ended up NOT paying her. He DID conversate with her via text message, and she was making demands that were just not right. Asking for ALL of his UNREDACTED paystubs, dating back 2-3 months (pretty much from when the last time they were at court, when the final CS decision was made). Asking for him to come ALONE (oh...he does NOT trust that at all, besides this isn't a damn ransom!). Telling him that he WILL hand over ALL the documents like she got to see at discovery (she represented herself, and in the meantime gave herself a lawyer degree :? )...or else it's back to court. He told her look I will just pay and get it over with, to quit being difficult...well she told him HE was being difficult and basically it was her way or the highway. So, off to court he will most likely go...I hope they see she is just wasting their time because she wants the money to be calculated at GROSS, AND added to his income so she is getting it weekly!!! AND she wants an "annual review for over/underpayment". WTF?!? WHO does she think she is?!? Again, the judge ALREADY ruled on that!!! Not to mention, she has pissed off everyone at that courthouse already...

So he got advise from the courthouse, and was told to just pay the $ to the CS office, let her file and deal with them as far as getting the money, etc. goes. Sounds good to both of us! He just has to type up a letter and mail in the check tomorrow..boom, set, done. Also, he found out thru a friend that she is filing something EVERY WEEK. Seriously. Nuts. Oh, I provide the health insurance because I carry it thru my job, and she tried to file a mod asking that she has FULL AND COMPLETE ACCESS, that we DO NOT have access, and that ALL claims go straight to her house Yea....right. I'm the policy holder, NOT going to happen!!! According to the friend she was told too bad so sad, be happy the kid has insurance, she has ZERO say and her mod will be denied! See, we think something is wrong with the child, and she is keeping it VERY hush hush--she is almost paranoid about us seeing his medical records (which my husband cannot because he doesn't have joint legal...yet...). We can't see the kid's medical records, although we can see who he goes to and how often via the explanation of benefits (which I told her via a letter that I will send them to her as I receive them, I need to screen and make sure they don't have my family's info on them).

Yuck, she has WAY too much time on her hands (she's NOT working)....

Thanks for taking the time to hear me out!