I'm no longer friends with any of the skids or their spouses (very long story) on FB. It is much safer and saner for me-they used it to attack me on more than one occasion. However, the skids BM is friends with all of my DH's family on FB as well as the skids, their spouses and the gkids. The funny thing though is that she has blocked me on FB so that I cannot even pull up her profile. I know she has blocked me specifically because I've had someone search for her name and her profile pops up for them. It WALL is still private but they can find her profile. So when she has a conversation with one of my DH's family members all I can see is their response not hers. It is the weirdest thing to see only one side of a conversation. It was annoying to me at first but now when I see it have to laugh. Because it says to me that she is very concerned about me seeing her stuff etc. and that it upsets her to have me see her stuff on FB. Why would she care about me and what I can see? The woman is a total nut job and she has screwed her children up royally!! I haven't blocked her from seeing what I say on FB, I could care less whether she sees it or not! She's a loser and I don't waste time thinking about her if I can help it. Fortunately, we don't see her much cuz she lives in another country. All my skids are married so no more weddings to see her at. I don't always see her when the skids have babies either cuz she isn't always invited to come or if she is she claims she can't afford to come. I think she blocked me originally to cause drama since it happened in the middle of the big drama with oldest SS (the fallout is me not being friends with any skids or spouses). But since I didn't say anything about it to anyone other than DH and I haven't complained about it on FB to anyone that she could see it didn't get the reaction she wanted. The funny thing is I have been told by several of DH family members that she drives them crazy on FB and that they don't wanna talk to her cuz she is so phony and nutty and she hasn't wanted anything to do with them for years. Most of the people she is talking to are my DH nieces and nephews who are in their 20s and 30s and she hasn't seen or talked to them in 10-15 years. So when I see the one-sided conversations they make me laugh!