BM's being a bitch. She's signing SS up for a sport on our custody days even though we told her we can't do it There are 2 other kids in our house, DH works full time and I will be working at night. He is only 4 and doesn't need to go but the custody says its DH's job to get him there. DH decided to change DS1's entire bedtime routine to prepare for me working at night, so that he and SS go to bed at the same time. DS is here 7 nights a week, SS is here one over night during the week. So my DS1 has to change his ENTIRE schedule bc of SS being here ONE night. DH is mad at BM and his parents bc of this situation with BM and her calling hte cops 2 weeks ago so of course, I get to be yelled at bc he can't yell at them. BM asked me to watch SS tomorrow. I said yes. Then she told me she called everyone else she knew and no one could take him. Then she told me how he really hates coming here with me and doesnt want to come but she told him she had no other choice but to leave him with i guess "the evil step mom". I deal with BMs shit JUST AS MUCH as DH does and it's just as much my problem as his but I'm not allowed to have a say. Shoot, I'm not allowed anything. I bend over backwards to make everyones life easier but my own and the thanks I get is- no one cares what I have to say, I hate SS bc I'm upset that even DS sleep schedule has to revolve around SS, I "don't understand" even though everything she puts DH thru, I go thru too. One night I didnt feel well (last night) and wanted to go to bed earlier (keep in mind I was ALONE with ALL THREE kids all weekend bc DH was tired, or had things to do) and he let them scream run and yell thru the house bc "kids will be kids" even though I do my best to keep the house calm when he is resting and sick (which is a HECK OF ALOT more often than me). I'm just done being treated like everything wrong in the world is my fault, like I'm not on the same team as my husband and everyone expecting everything from me and I'm supposed to just sit and smile and eat their shit without even a thank you.