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Submitted by Lauren1438 on Tue, 09/06/2011 - 12:00pm

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Mentally Unfit Biological Parents

So I have been with the most amazing guy for about a year now and we are going to be getting married soon. Ever Since BM found out about me she has tried everything to get his girls (4 and 6) to hate me, and my future DH to dump me. This woman is horrible, he is lazy and only after FDH money. The latest development in her plot to ruin the relationship I have build with these girls is she told them that I am taking their dad away and that they wont be able to see him once we are married.

I love his girls they are wonderful, it is just this horrible woman. She is pissed at me because I was talking to FDH about the spouse support that he is paying when he doesn't have to, so she just realized that she is really not getting the additional $500 this month and is pissed (please keep in mind we pay the child support). She moved in with a man 6 months ago and just fyi it is the one she had an affair with.

FDH and I got a phone call last night from BM screaming that the girls were so up set that they don't get to see him any more we could hear them crying in the back ground. Needless to say he is pissed she crossed the line, and she had the nerve to say that if he didn't continue to pay the spouse support she would move out of state. Man I wish that I could see her face when the attorney I work for calls her today about the legal ramifications that will occur if she begins the process of leaving the state with the girls, she is going to freak, she has no idea I work for an attorney Smile pay back....so sweet.

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Tue, 09/06/2011 - 12:11pm

What a wack job. How often is he supposed to see the kids and does he stick to it?

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Submitted by Lauren1438 on Tue, 09/06/2011 - 12:32pm

every weekend like clock work, he loves his girls so much and always spoils them rotten. Every weekend they get a new outfit and a new toy of some kind.

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Submitted by Lauren1438 on Tue, 09/06/2011 - 12:30pm

This BM is all about money, from what FDH has told me she refused to get a job before they had kids to help create a better home, He didn't even ask her to do it full time just a part time job. They married when she was 19 he was 20 and she had never worked a day in her life, and it has been 8 years and she still refuses to get off her ass and get a job. The man she had an affair with makes more money and that was her reasoning for cheating, as she put it he can provide a better life. I just hope the girls don't grow up with her personality.

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Submitted by whovian21 on Mon, 09/12/2011 - 6:40am

That's always hard, worrying about the child getting the crazy bm's personality. My ss bm made the same threats and actually carried them out (DH stopped paying her rent, car, phone, and insurance when he already paid for more than enough in voluntary child support, so she moved a state away and wouldn't even let him talk on the phone to his son). Now we have full custody. But I do worry about ss(2) adopting her personality. Whenever he comes back from the weekend visits his attitude is quite different than from before he left.