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Submitted by Redsonya on Wed, 09/05/2012 - 4:15pm

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I just got back from a short vacation with my DD3 and family. DH's friend and work buddy uses DH's truck occasionally because its bigger and we have a trailer. He let me know he wanted to use it last week to pick up a couch for his house and I said no problem, but I would be gone from Friday to Tuesday night so catch me beforehand. Didn't hear from him.

Then this morning around 9 am, I hear the phone ring about 5 times, but don't answer because we got in late last night and I didn't get to sleep until about 4 am. Hear pounding on the door, my name being yelled and was seriously irritated so I decided not to answer. Then this guy comes into my backyard, comes onto my deck and actually climbs over onto my bedroom deck, and walks INTO MY BEDROOM! I am asleep in my underwear, no bra and a tiny tank top. He just stands there with me almost naked and says that he needs the truck. A little wierd? I don't even know what to say to him when he comes back but it isn't going to be nice. Not only is that totally inappropriate, but I work from home so if I am on a conference call with a client, I won't be answering the door and would be really pissed if he knocked, yelled my name, called on the phone, and came ito my house while I am working.

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Wed, 09/05/2012 - 4:18pm

Oh HELL NO! This guy would've gotten a bullet between his eyes if he'd come into my bedroom like that! I keep loaded weapons (4 of them within my or my DH's reach) at all times and am trained to use them.

So, you gave him the truck, I am gathering? And aside from telling him off and how inappropriate and unacceptable his behavior was, I'd let DH rip into him for doing what he did.

Oh and you may want to LOCK your doors from now on. Just sayin

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Submitted by Redsonya on Wed, 09/05/2012 - 4:20pm

I locked all of my doors (I heard him trying them all), except my bedroom deck door because it was hot last night. Unbelieveable.

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Wed, 09/05/2012 - 4:22pm

He's extremely lucky in my opinion. Like I said, I have guns and I would've shot his ass.

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Submitted by Redsonya on Wed, 09/05/2012 - 4:57pm

I just left this person a strongly worded voicemail warning him to never do anything like that again. I told DH about it and he said he was sorry and what a wierdo, but of course no real anger. I am just his wife afterall, I can handle it, right? For some reason I am pissed at DH for this, lol. I have never had so many wierd ass people with zero boundaries come into my life since I met him. His complete lack of boundaries attracts others like him I guess.

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Wed, 09/05/2012 - 5:04pm

Oh my DH would've went OFF on this guy had he done that to me. You have every right to be pissed. I can't believe his flippant attitude about someone ENTERING your home, appearing in your bedroom with you dressed in very little to sleep in (I don't wear much either) demanding to use his truck...it's just wrong on so many levels.

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Submitted by Aeron on Wed, 09/05/2012 - 5:12pm

I'd be pissed at my DH too if that was all the reaction this got. That is beyond weird, that is full on, I'm calling the police on your ass if you don't leave right now and Forget about borrowing the truck dumbass. That is Seriously so not ok. My DH would have ripped into the guy about how not only inappropriate but um, CRIMINAL that behavior is.

No more favors for him! Christ, he'd never be allowed on my property again. That is just Wow.

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Submitted by Redsonya on Wed, 09/05/2012 - 5:58pm

I feel a little better - DH called me back and said he was sorry - he was totally kind of shocked that this person would do that. He is going to handle it with him and this person won't be allowed over again.