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Step son as part of wedding topper

Sootica's picture

This question is on behalf of my friend who is SM to be.....they getting married May& she wants to include her cats in the wedding topper model her other half says only if they can include ss.Is this fair?They acquired the cats together with mutual consent.....unlike ss a result of baby mama "accident"

oldone's picture

To be honest I think the cats are pretty off the wall too. I love, love, love all of the dog's I've had, but even Miss No Kids loves her dog to death (me) doesn't like that.

Personally I'd rather see beautiful flowers on top than a cheesy plastic bride and groom. But whatever they agree on works for them.

RedWingsFan's picture

Wow, really? I foresee issues already! LMAO Sorry, but for him to insist that SS (his likeness rather) to be on their wedding cake, I'm afraid this bride is going to be here posting a LOT after the wedding!!!

Shaman29's picture

I get the feeling the groom was needling the bride with his suggestion. He probably was thinking "WTF?? Cats?? Will they be the F'ing ring bearers too??" Smile

RedWingsFan's picture

LOL I'm getting the visual now: some little boy holding two cats on top of a wedding cake. BARF!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Shaman29's picture

With the bride and groom brushing cat hair and goldfish crumbs off of their clothing.

RedWingsFan's picture

LMFAO YES!!!! Oh you've given me a much needed laugh today, thanks Shaman!

Shaman29's picture

I would suggest to my friend to nix the cats on the wedding topper and avoid the issue. Sounds to me like he only said suggested having his kid on there too, to show her he thought her cat wedding topper is a ridiculous idea.

Because to be honest......they're not marrying the cats and they're not marrying the kids. Have flowers or something innocuous as the wedding topper and be done with it.

Sootica's picture

Old one usually I would agree with you except she is 39 with no bios and the cars are like g
her "kids ".

Shaman29's picture

Well......then she may have to suck it up then and have the whole kit and caboodle on top of her wedding cake.

Talk your friend off the cats on the cake ledge, convince her flowers would be better and more tasteful.

twopines's picture

>>>Talk your friend off the cats on the cake ledge, convince her flowers would be better and more tasteful.<<<

AGREE!!

oldone's picture

Hey I'm almost 30 years OLDER than she is with no kids. I understand about pets being your "babies". I love my dog way more than most people I know.

Orange County Ca's picture

Unfortunately for her she IS marrying the kid. Something she will live to rue.

Can you kidnap her and lock her into her room until she gets over the insanity of marrying a guy who already has kids?

Sootica's picture

My thoughts exactly!!However she is marrying someone who has major Disney daddy syndrome *puke*

Shaman29's picture

Oh goodness gracious me....

Wedding topper should be a bottle of Jack Daniels instead.

lostinbrazil's picture

"Wedding topper should be a bottle of Jack Daniels instead."

LOLOLOLOLOL!!!!! Seriously!!!

Come on people! CATS on a freaking wedding cake?? That is absurd and SS on the cake is also absurd! No no on all levels!! And yes I believe they will be the laughing stock of their own wedding if they go through with this. Talk her out of it please and be a good friend!

:jawdrop: :?

ps- but if she does do it will you post a picture somewhere for us?

Sootica's picture

LOL!!!!1 bottle at least.Personally I think she is doing this because she wants to "stake a claim" because they have to deal with the BM from hell on a daily basis.

Sootica's picture

Dztyblonde I will suggest this to her-its a good idea.As for her only wanting "her kids" I think that she shouldn't be lambasted for getting to the age of 39 without having a "whoops " baby .

talia11's picture

Perhaps she could have one made for the cake of just them, and if they are the ceramic kind you can keep, perhaps get a seperate one made with everyone. But I agree, The topper should just have her and hubby.

Sootica's picture

Update.....I spoke to my friend today & she has decided to go with flowers on top instead to avoid any disputes.Thank-you to everyone who posted their suggestions.

c-mom's picture

I'm surprised she found a man who would want to marry her if she feels the need to include her cats on a cake topper. The cats may be part of the family, but they are not part of the MARRIAGE. LOL

c-mom's picture

OH yeah, and I would put my step kids on top of my cake before I would put my dog up there, who we acquired together. Somebody is a little cookoo!