HI, I'm new to this site. I've been looking for a support system for awhile now. I'm newly engaged to my wonderful fiance, we have been together 2.5 years. We just moved in together 7 weeks ago He has 2 kids, 14 year old daughter, 7 year old son, I have two girls ages 11,7. To say it's been a big adjustment would be an understatement. I want to know about other people and their jealous issues in regards to the ex wife. I keep reading how people have "first family" jealousy. I KNOW my fiance loves me and my kids, and he has a good relationship with his ex (good for the kids) but I feel like every time I turn around, she's at my house for one reason or another! I'm polite and try and have a decent relationship for the sake of their kids, but on the inside I'm having a really hard time. I'm feeling confused.