I've posted on here about the problems I've been having with exH. We have a CS conference scheduled next week with Domestic Relations, to establish a support order. (exH has recently taken it upon himself to cut our mutually agreed upon CS in half because he can't afford it). He has been hinting this past week that he wants to do what is fair, that he is willing to do a direct deposit if that's what I want, blah, blah, blah. He is seeing an attorney tonight and I'm curious as to what his proposition is going to be. I made it clear to him last night that I am not dismissing this conference and that I still want CS to go through support services, whether we come to an agreement ourselves or not. He has gone back on our agreements one too many times for me to be willing to do otherwise.

Last night when we were talking about this, he started hinting about troubles at home and the difficulty he's been having with his wife in regards to CS, etc. I quickly shut him up and just said that was his problem to deal with and I didn't want to know anything about it. I have a theory on where a lot of the issue is coming from, based on past interactions, although she is by no means entirely to blame. I don't care, I didn't marry her, he did. I don't have to deal with her, he does.

He then starts explaining to me about the new car they bought, and that they were trading in their other two vehicles for this one. I again told him that he doesn't need to explain that stuff to me because it's none of my business. I really wish he would listen to me when I tell him that I don't need, nor do I want, to know what goes on in their lives. If it doesn't involved DD I DON'T CARE. Part of it is my fault, as I did let him vent to me in the past, as I still considered him a friend. That, however, has changed in the past year. I want nothing more than to deal with him only when necessary.