So I guess last week BM bought ss12 a re-loadable time cellphone since he had the one that BM's father bought first lost on the ground at school where someone returned it to the office, then the next story was that it was stolen out of his backpack as well as his Ipodtouch that DH bought him (prior to him having the cellphone) So BM learned that a 10 year old turning 11 at the time couldn't handle having a cellphone. Which is why DH never put him on our cellphone plan.

So SS12 leaves the new cellphone downstairs when he went to bed finally at 1am. DH of course looks through it. We first notice multiple voicemails left from Mom and multiple texts messages asking "where are you? are you home? did you get home okay? All like that. And he didn't respond to her. The one time he did he replied that his cellphone was dead. Suuuuuuuuure. So this is interesting as he goes or is supposed to go directly home after school, and she gets off work several hours later. So maybe he's bringing "guests" over? Dunno.

THEN.....oh lordy.....He has several hundred texts to his friend, also a boy in 7th grade with him. The texts were so disturbing and disgusting I can't even look ss12 in the eye today. They were talking mainly about these 3 girls at his school. They were talking about which one to "fuck", and who did they make out with here and there, and just about tits and asses of these girls, just REALLY vulgar things. DH and I just looked at each other blankly with our jaws on the floor like WTF did we just read from a 12 year old!??!!?!?

Now back up in time..... to a photo that BM put on facebook back in June from his end of the year dance at his elementary school in 6th grade. SS12 is CROTCH thrusting like "YESSSSSSSS!!!" (a disturbing pose for a 12 year old) and her comment on the photo is, QUOTE "First dance last night. Three slow dances with three different ladies. Legendary;)" And BM's dad's response is "SO COOL!" And a bunch of other piggy comments that cheer on the fact that BM is encouraging him to be a player. At first this seems silly, nothing to worry about right? Well then after reading the texts and showing DH the photo, we are very concerned. 12 year olds?!?!?! OMG....12 year olds talking about "Fucking."

I feel so sorry for these girls parents at his school. Having 12 year old disgusting brats talk about their daughters that way?!?! I seriously want to vomit.

So now we think he could be sneaking girls over to his house after school before mom gets home. (DH has no idea what goes on at BM's house because they separated after SS12 was born) We can only make assumptions from his behavior at our house

DH and BM are not on good speaking terms because everything is always drama so even bringing this up will cause WWIII and it will all get blamed back on DH because BM is the MARTYR!!!!! The last two months BM has been a royal bitch. If it's not going in her favor, she's going to be a inconsiderate piece of shit and only care about herself and her boyfriend.

So......my SS12's new name from now and his day forth shall be called, Cesspool.

Poor DH is going to have his hands so full