Years ago when we married, I had Sk's that did not live with us but lived with mom.

Things came out and I became a full time SM, with little involvement from the BM other than drama.

My husband works out of town and comes home several days at a time then back out, but I am feeling more and more dumped on. I take on the full time roll of a BM but I am SM. BM now has supervised visitation that she does not do.

Husbands parents were helping out sometimes but they couldn't take the "stress" of the kids and left. I am so mad, these are their grandkids and they won't help but it is my "duty" to do it all

I have one SK left, but it seems like I never get a break for real it is getting old and I am getting worn out and tired from dealing with the "stress"

Now grandparents want to come back, only to have a place to live not to help out because Sk is old enough to do things on her own now.

I feel like a babysitter, maid and taxi and I also work outside of the home full time.

I am frustrated and every other emotion