Trying to Figure Out What it Means
Well, I still check on my SD as I have been doing since she has been lacking common sense and trying to pick up strangers on her www.myspace.com site. Today she has a "revelation" on her life category, of which I can't quite figure out what it is supposed to mean, or if it supposed to be directed at me, on purpose or what, maybe someone can help me because I am truly confused, so here is the exact wording:
my "revelation"
Category: Life
ok: i jut came up with this really great idea. you have ever lied to someone ...like I am not talking petty lying. i'm talking like lying lying...wait...petty lying works too. If you have ever lied to someone I think you should tell them...right now. alot of people would feel better if they knew or they might get really mad and throw a temper tantrum and you may have to go back to said person and get on your hands and knees crawl back to for forgiveness.
i know i would feel better if i knew no one would like anymore...or if i knew ppl would just tell others anything.
if you read this and think this is directed at you trust me its not...just a revelation i guess you could say. B/c for all you know this could be directed at my stepmom, for all i know shes a man. ha ha ha...that would be great! JK!
O-^
heres the most hated lie of today...I love you
****End of passage
I have no idea what this is supposed to mean. It's extremely confusing, but I think it was supposed to be insultive.
If anyone has any ideas, let me know.
Thanks,
Sweetie
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Have you watched Dr. Phil lately?
I'm not sure what it means, but on Dr.Phil (yesterday/day before?) the show was about rumors that have caused serious damage to peoples reputations......one of the women had spend 7 yrs fighting a rumor that she was once a man. It was an outright lie..and had been started by a disgruntled x boyfriend! I don't know if that's the connection.
Having said that, Sweetie, I do have to say..
You allow your step-daughter too have much control over you!!
She pulls a string and makes you jump & dance for entertainment! Your not her puppet!!! She has taken over your life. You can't go a day without thinking about her, wondering about her, worrying, etc. You have to start taking the power back. Once the entertainment is gone for her...she'll find other things to do with herself.
I can be very stubborn...It helps me in that I won't let them win! The best "revenge" for any shitty-jealous treatment I've received is to be happy and live a good life... I know that DRIVES them crazy!!
Bf's x is a total manipulative, nut-job...her kids still have her back..they're civil to me because of their father... the oldest drives me insane!!!! Or would rather if I let her.
I really am lovin-life at 40+...I'm an emotional person by nature and it can be a roller coaster at times but I am with who I was meant to be with my entire life..he's 50..we have 20 or so (God willng)good years together... I can't fix the world. Or my SK's. Or his X. Or my X. It has been a real challenge for me to learn how to let things go. I'm really finding such peace..even with the difficult people/situations I have to deal with...
I just hate seeing you so worked up about her.....
Don't let her bring you down
This is just getting to be too much. Obviously she knows you check the site out, she's laying emotional traps for you. I know you can't ignore it, but consider the sorce.
SD's friends threatening to have me arrested for comment on blog
I know, I know--it all starts with what most of you tell me to consider the source....but I can't understand how someone can be so whacked out. And then have a bunch of kids following yo...it makes no sense. Anyways, these dimwits are now threatening to have me arrested for making nonthreatening comments on a public website.
This is absolutely crazy. But it is bothering me terribly. It is easier to give advice than take it. I've kept myself busy this afternoon and went shopping and purchased my husband some clothing for work. But I am waiting for him to get home and take a look at this stuff. I, to some extent, feel that I am fighting my own battles these days. My husband doesn't want any contact with the ex, or my SD, so I am pretty much alone on this. What else can I do?
Sweetie...
Don't look at her blog no more, ignore her. Her revelation statements to me means something like: she's giving you a hint to tell her some truth and implies that you lied to her. Don't know what that is but when I read it, I get that message. It's like she's wanting an apology from you for lying to her. I might be totally wrong. Stop looking at her blogs it will just make you feel horrible. She's not a very good person towards you, ignore her and she'll realize she is just wasting her energy and don't post anything on her blogs. Some people are just vultures waiting for some sign to give them a go to humilate, anger another. Sounds like she's one of them.
Trying to be strong but very miserable
Dear Happy Mom,
I honestly don't know what to make of that statement in SD's blog. I'm very confused and upset....feel like everything is closing in on me and honestly, I am just trying to keep from flipping out. I just can't believe that anyone can grow up to be so spiteful, mean, and vindictive. It really makes you lose faith in the future. I am at my wit's end with this. Part of me feels like I should stick up for myself, because it isn't right to be treated like this, and then, the other part, is well, you have to consider the source, like yea, you're working with someone who rides on the short bus. It's like banging your head against a wall repeatedly and making no progress.
And I am thinking am I destined to have to tolerate being treated like this for another 11 months? If so, this is absolute hell.
I know it's hard to be
I know it's hard to be strong at times but if you waste your energy on negativity from others, you'll lose. I've been there when I feel like I just want to come out and smack the other person in the head but you need to control your emotions. I've learned through the years to not bother w/stupid or evil persons, I just ignore them totally and then I feel okay. Don't stoop down to her level and fight w/her, sometimes when you ignore people you win because they can't do nothing to see you mad and that's what they want...they want to see you angry to get their satisfaction. If you defend yourself, she'll just feed into that and it will never end. Ignore her and see what comes out of that. Let us know, don't think too much about her.
Sweetie
I know that it will be hard but I think Happy Mom is right. You are going to have to ignore her. She obviously knows you are reading her blog or whatever and she is baiting you or setting you up or something. She is messed up in the head.
Dawn
WoW!
Sweetie - you are too darn SWEET to be put through all of this! Step 1. I agree with the others - DO NOT EVER READ HER RAMBLINGS AGAIN - she is obviously trying to bait you - and it's working!
Step 2. Get your husband on side, show him what she was been writing and ask him for his support.
Step 3. Live your life - be thankful for the things that make you happy - and ignore the aspects that give you grief - like your silly SD.
She sounds completely immature so I would not take any notice of anything that comes out of her mind.
Step 4. Breathe! Deeply. Relax - let it go. Accept the things you cannot change (like her attitude) and move forward.
You are too special to go through this.
Step 5. Go out and treat yourself to a facial! It will bring a smile to your face...you deserve it.